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In Love with PMDD

In Love with PMDD

Von: Dr. Rose Alkattan
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Welcome to the In Love with PMDD Podcast, I am your Host Dr. Rose Alkattan, your PMDD Relationship Psychotraumatologist. Each week, I will be teaching you my signature PMDD Trauma Transformational Tools where I help PMDD Partners to STOP Breaking up every month. We Got This!

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  • Why Breaking Up Won’t Fix PMDD Stress
    Jan 20 2026

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    Ever feel like one tiny comment can tip your whole relationship over? PMDD can make the ordinary feel unbearable, not because your love changed, but because your stress response did. We pull back the curtain on how the luteal phase cranks up the body’s alarm system—spiking cortisol, shrinking emotional tolerance, and distorting what you think your partner means—so neutral moments read like rejection and everyday chores feel like cliffs.

    We walk through real‑life flashpoints, like time management clashes and airport anxiety, to show how different nervous systems handle stress. You’ll hear a simple shift—explaining the why behind your behavior—turn rigidity into care and defensiveness into teamwork. We dig into the intimacy gap that opens when fatigue pushes you into autopilot, and how two‑minute check‑ins can keep connection alive without draining your last bit of energy. Instead of chasing a stress‑free fantasy, we focus on building a responsive plan: safe time‑outs for rage, short body resets to lower baseline arousal, and weekly “release the pressure” rituals that stop micro‑triggers from stockpiling.

    Using the balloon metaphor, we map how unaddressed stress accumulates all month and pops during PMDD. The fix isn’t a breakup or silence until it blows; it’s steady processing while your brain can still think clearly. We share tools to align on hot zones before they heat up, trade roles when energy dips, and name what’s happening in plain language so your partner stops feeling like the enemy. By seeing stress as a shared opponent and PMDD as a filter—not a verdict—you can protect your bond and move through the luteal phase with more clarity, compassion, and control.

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    32 Min.
  • How Unresolved Trauma Shapes PMDD And Relationships
    Jan 2 2026

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    What if the fights, shutdowns, and spirals aren’t “just hormones,” but trauma resurfacing on a monthly schedule? We take you inside the lived reality of PMDD as a trauma amplifier—how it trains the brain to expect danger, erodes emotional safety at home, and fuels shame loops that make repair feel impossible. Through a raw personal story of a New Year’s trigger and years of clinical work, we map the path from unpredictable reactions to practical regulation.

    You’ll learn why triggers aren’t the cause but the clue, and how to trace them back to core wounds like abandonment, neglect, or betrayal. We break down the nervous system mechanics behind PMDD—chronic overwhelm, lost recovery windows, and hypervigilance—and show how these patterns turn jokes into jabs and routine requests into rejection. Then we shift to transformation: acceptance as accurate data, boundaries that protect connection, and action‑based tools that calm your body before your words cause damage. Think paced breathing, movement to discharge stress, repair windows after conflict, and clear scripts that slow things down when emotions surge.

    We also draw a firm line between partner support and therapy. Empathy, softness, and small adjustments help, but your partner cannot and should not carry the weight of your processing. Consistent counseling builds resilience across cycles so you’re not rebuilding from scratch every month. If you’ve ever thought, “I should be over this by now,” or felt scared of who you become in luteal days, this conversation offers a grounded, compassionate roadmap. Subscribe, share with someone who needs it, and leave a review telling us the one trigger you’re ready to transform. Your nervous system will thank you.

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    28 Min.
  • Stop Acting Like Roommates, Start Feeling Like Lovers
    Dec 6 2025

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    It’s easy to blame “too many feelings” for the distance in a relationship. The truth is harder—and far more hopeful: emotions aren’t the problem; misalignment, suppression, and tone are. After weeks on the road and deep reflection, I’m sharing the tools and stories that helped me see why some bonds thrive through hard conversations while others collapse into polite cohabiting.

    We dig into how the nervous system shapes every conflict. When PMDD or trauma flips the threat switch, the amygdala drowns out logic and language. You can’t out-think a hijacked brain—but you can regulate it. I walk through the difference between suppression and real regulation, why stonewalling hurts as much as rage, and how to process in real time without making your partner your therapist. You’ll learn to catch the story you tell yourself—“they don’t care” versus “they had a hard day”—and pick the thought that leads to compassion, not combat.

    We also talk alignment: if you need solitude to process, choose someone who self-soothes instead of chasing you with insecurity. If you process out loud, you need a listener who treats sharing as intimacy, not a threat. Communication tone becomes the hinge: the same boundary can sound like control or love depending on delivery. I share scripts, boundary phrases, and a framework that keeps connection front and center while you solve the problem. Leadership emerges here too; respect is earned by tenderness and steadiness, not demanded by volume or titles.

    If you’re ready to replace endless “knowledge” with steady implementation, my January monthly coaching packages are opening with limited spots. We’ll uncover blind spots, install PMDD-aware tools, and practice the small, daily moves that keep you close even in the hard moments. Subscribe, share this with a friend who needs it, and leave a review with the one tool you’ll try this week. Your emotions can be the bridge back to intimacy—let’s build it together.

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    54 Min.
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