In this conversation, Suad explores the complexities of cultural identity, modern dating, and the dynamics of marriage and divorce. She emphasizes the importance of self-love and healing, particularly for those navigating relationships after divorce. Suad shares insights on how to find love within oneself before seeking it externally, and the significance of valuing personal relationships and growth. The discussion highlights the intersection of faith, culture, and emotional well-being in shaping our experiences of love and connection.

• (00:00:25) - The Love of My Life
• (00:00:45) - What gave me the courage to date outside my religion in the US
• (00:05:13) - Muslims on Dating Apps
• (00:06:43) - Somali Single Women vs Married Women
• (00:12:36) - What Is A Side Chick Having An Affair With Married Men?
• (00:15:55) - What Muslim Women Should Do To Get Married
• (00:19:34) - "It's in my heart"
• (00:19:53) - What Does a Healthy, Centered Relationship Look Like?
• (00:24:24) - How To Know When You're Self-Sabotaging
• (00:28:42) - Know When You Are the One
• (00:29:02) - When to Give Up on Communication
• (00:33:11) - How To Control Your Emotions In Relationships
• (00:37:10) - 3 tips for happy married women
• (00:40:47) - "You Should Be Able to Leave Your Parents Home"
• (00:45:56) - What is a communal marriage in our community?
• (00:49:28) - The Mom's role in marriage
• (00:54:03) - How to take care of your children?
• (00:55:55) - What have you learned about yourself through the process of divorcing?
• (01:01:18) - How to Approach Reentry Into Marriage in a dignified Way
• (01:06:16) - What would you tell someone who Fears They Will Never Find Love
• (01:11:01) - The Power of Emotional Relationships
• (01:12:31) - Find a Love Within You First
• (01:16:33) - 7 Things You Need To Know About Your Love Interest
• (01:16:52) - A Conversation on Love and the World
• (01:17:47) - Holding On to the Ummah

In this conversation, Sofiya and Suad explore the complexities of love, faith, and relationships within the Somali and Muslim diaspora. They discuss the challenges of navigating cultural expectations, the impact of divorce, and the importance of healing and self-love. The conversation also delves into the cultural clashes faced by individuals growing up in the West, the role of gender dynamics in relationships, and the necessity of distinguishing between cultural practices and religious beliefs.

• (00:00:00) - Invent a Mana: Love and Dating in the West
• (00:02:53) - Marriages and the challenges of them
• (00:09:26) - Favorite Infidelity
• (00:16:23) - Why is it so hard for women to be single?
• (00:18:20) - The challenges of being single after divorce
• (00:21:54) - What Does Love Mean to You? (Love Allah Subhanahu
• (00:28:20) - The Pain of Loving Others
• (00:28:57) - What cultural clashes do
• (00:35:33) - Khadiji On Why She's Going To Dump Her Cous
• (00:40:40) - How do cultural expectations about family involvement, gender roles, or
• (00:46:55) - Understanding the Need to Honor Culture

Summary

In this enlightening conversation, Sofiya Idris sits down with Iftin Mohamed, the executive of Voices of Tomorrow, to discuss the importance of language preservation, the challenges and triumphs of entrepreneurship within the Somali community, and the future vision for their organization. They delve into the significance of mental health awareness and the need for culturally relevant support systems, emphasizing the power of community and the importance of defining one's own narrative.

• (00:00:25) - In the Elevator With Iftin Mohammed
• (00:01:37) - Vocals of Tomorrow
• (00:04:52) - Why is holding onto the Somali language so vital for our children and
• (00:09:47) - Voices of Tamar: Defending Language
• (00:13:24) - What would it take to get like Somali language taught the way Spanish
• (00:17:31) - The Making of a Child's Identity
• (00:18:39) - VoICE of Tomorrow: Starting a business, scaling up
• (00:20:14) - What Does Somali Entrepreneurs Mean to You?
• (00:23:01) - What Keeps You From Giving Up
• (00:26:11) - What's The Secret To Staying Together With Your Best Friend?
• (00:30:59) - How religion plays a role in couples' life
• (00:36:33) - "I Got Rushed"
• (00:37:04) - Voices of Tomorrow: Towards a Vision
• (00:39:10) - What is Zaif Mental Health Clinic?
• (00:41:53) - The mental health crisis in the Somali community
• (00:47:24) - How to help a mentally ill child
• (00:51:42) - Somalis speak about mental health
• (00:56:26) - What legacy do you hope to leave as a Somali woman
• (00:58:52) - Somali National Conference
• (01:03:54) - Somali Voices: Defining Our Own Liberation and Narratives
• (01:08:53) - "There Are Parts Of Me That I Only Want God To Know
• (01:09:47) - Sophie on Working With People
• (01:12:33) - Ifin On Her Vision
• (01:15:56) - Holding on to the memories