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  • Beyond Vanilla: What Every Couple Can Learn from Kink

    Beyond Vanilla: What Every Couple Can Learn from Kink
    Feb 21 2026
    In this episode of The Lovers Society, Marissa Nelson and Dr. Neil Cannon delve into the complexities of intimacy, kink, and the importance of communication in relationships. They explore the misconceptions surrounding kink, emphasizing that it is not solely about pain but rather about play and connection. The conversation highlights the significance of consent, aftercare, and understanding power dynamics in relationships. They also address the challenges of discussing desires and boundaries, the impact of shame on sexuality, and the importance of creating a safe space for exploration. The episode concludes with resources for those looking to expand their sexual lives and heal from trauma.
    Takeaways
    Kink encompasses a wide range of experiences beyond pain.Playfulness is essential for maintaining intimacy in long-term relationships.Sarcasm can be damaging in intimate conversations.Listening to a partner's desires does not mean agreeing to everything.Shame is a significant barrier to open communication about sex.Aftercare is crucial for emotional connection post-intimacy.Not all sexual experiences need to end in orgasm to be fulfilling.Self-exploration is key to understanding one's own desires.The mind is the most powerful sexual organ.Healing from trauma requires patience and understanding from both partners.
    sound bites
    "Kink is about play, not just pain.""Not all sex ends in orgasms."
    Chapters
    00:00 Exploring Kink and BDSM: A New Perspective02:58 Understanding Kink: Beyond Pain and Dominance05:32 The Importance of Play in Intimacy08:28 Navigating Consent and Boundaries11:06 Communicating Desires: The Key to Connection13:40 Building Trust Through Vulnerability16:23 Overcoming Shame in Sexual Conversations19:26 Power Dynamics in Relationships22:13 Creating a Safe Scene for Exploration24:48 Aftercare: The Unsung Hero of Intimacy27:39 Starting Your Journey into Kink30:07 Addressing Trauma in Intimacy33:03 Listener Letter: Balancing Desire and Safety
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    55 Min.
  • Designed for Intimacy: How Your Home Shapes Connection Sessions (1)

    Designed for Intimacy: How Your Home Shapes Connection Sessions (1)
    Feb 21 2026
    In this conversation, Marissa Nelson and Jamila St. Julien explore the intricate relationship between home design and intimacy. They discuss how creating cozy, inviting spaces can enhance connection and emotional well-being. The conversation covers various aspects of design, including the importance of decluttering, the role of lighting, and the impact of personal and cultural identity on home aesthetics. They emphasize the need for homes to reflect the individuals living in them and to serve as sanctuaries for relaxation and intimacy. The episode concludes with practical tips for couples to create spaces that nurture their relationship and foster deeper connections.
    Takeaways
    Your environment is the third participant in your relationship.Design is emotional care and should reflect who you are.Creating a cozy space enhances intimacy and connection.Decluttering can reclaim your space for intimacy.Lighting plays a crucial role in setting the mood.Use your home as a form of self-care.Creating rituals for connection is essential for couples.Design should support how you naturally move through your space.Home is an emotional place that can reflect love or disconnection.We deserve spaces that inspire us and make us feel good.
    sound bites
    "Design is emotional care.""Create a sanctuary for intimacy.""Lighting creates a whole mood."
    Chapters
    00:00 Teaser Intro01:00 Creating Intimacy Through Environment03:36 The Role of Design in Relationships46:57 Lightning Round53:13 Jamila's Final Thoughts55:15 Creating a Cozy Bedroom Atmosphere
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    1 Std. und 3 Min.
  • When Sex Stops: Rebuilding Intimacy You’re Tired of Trying

    When Sex Stops: Rebuilding Intimacy You’re Tired of Trying
    Feb 14 2026

    Summary

    In this episode of the Lover Society, Marissa Nelson and Dr. Pia delve into the complexities of intimacy and sexual connection. They discuss the common issues of sexual disconnection, the importance of communication, and the impact of sexual trauma on relationships. The conversation emphasizes the need for both partners to take ownership of their sexual health and the significance of creating a safe space for open discussions about intimacy. Through their insights, they provide valuable guidance for couples seeking to reconnect and navigate the challenges of their sexual lives. In this conversation, Dr. Pia and Marissa Nelson delve into the complexities of intimacy and trauma recovery. They discuss the importance of understanding trauma's impact on relationships, the role of touch in healing, and the necessity of creating a safe space for connection. The conversation also explores attachment styles, the empowerment that comes from education, and the significance of addressing medical concerns in sexual health. They provide practical tips for rebuilding intimacy after infidelity and emphasize the journey of rediscovering pleasure in relationships.

    Takeaways

    Sexual disconnection is more common than we think.

    Understanding the reasons behind sexual avoidance is crucial.

    Communication is key to rebuilding intimacy.

    Sexual trauma can significantly impact relationships.

    Both partners must take ownership of their sexual health.

    Creating a safe space for conversations about sex is essential.

    Intimacy involves more than just physical connection.

    Therapy can help navigate complex sexual issues.

    Understanding personal desires is important for intimacy.

    Healing from trauma requires patience and understanding. Naming and normalizing trauma is essential for healing.

    Intimacy requires a personal journey of self-exploration.

    Touch is foundational for intimacy and connection.

    Creating a safe space is crucial for vulnerability.

    Understanding attachment styles can improve relationships.

    Education empowers couples to navigate intimacy issues.

    Medical concerns can impact sexual health and intimacy.

    Rebuilding trust after infidelity takes time and communication.

    Rediscovering pleasure is a gradual process.

    Regular check-ins can enhance relationship intimacy.


    Sound bites

    "Communication is lubrication."

    "Sex doesn't happen in a vacuum."

    Chapters

    00:00 Introduction to the Lover Society and the Importance of Connection

    02:20 Understanding Disconnection in Intimacy

    09:18 Exploring the Reasons Behind Sexual Avoidance

    14:13 The Role of Communication in Intimacy

    20:26 The Complexity of Sexual Relationships

    25:45 Navigating Conversations About Intimacy

    28:36 Addressing Sexual Trauma and Its Impact

    29:06 Understanding Trauma and Intimacy

    32:42 The Role of Touch in Healing

    36:53 Creating a Safe Space for Connection

    39:40 Navigating Attachment Styles

    42:07 Empowerment Through Education

    46:53 Addressing Medical Concerns

    48:19 Rebuilding After Infidelity

    52:44 Finding Pleasure Again

    54:10 Practical Tips for Connection
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    1 Std. und 6 Min.