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When Family Is the Source of the Trauma With Dr. Sherrie

When Family Is the Source of the Trauma With Dr. Sherrie

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Licensed clinical psychologist and bestselling author Dr. Sherrie Campbell joins us for a powerful conversation about toxic family dynamics, emotional abuse, and the complicated path toward family estrangement. In this episode, Sonia and Kathleen explore how unhealthy family relationships can shape self-worth, boundaries, and coping mechanisms—including substance use—and how women can begin to reclaim their lives. Dr. Campbell is a nationally recognized expert on family estrangement, author of Adult Survivors of Toxic Family Members, a TEDx speaker, and host of the top 1% podcast Sherapy Sessions: Cutting Toxic Family Ties. Together, they unpack the realities of emotionally abusive parenting, boundary setting, and the courage it takes to choose healing.The conversation explores difficult but deeply relatable questions: What actually qualifies as emotional abuse in a family system? Why do so many adult children struggle to recognize toxic dynamics while they’re living inside them? How do manipulation, triangulation, guilt, and silent treatment shape a child’s development—and how do those patterns follow people into adulthood? The episode also examines how family trauma can intersect with coping behaviors like alcohol use, why estrangement is often misunderstood, and how protective distance can become an act of self-respect rather than rejection.Dr. Campbell shares parts of her own story of growing up in a deeply dysfunctional family system and the decades-long process that ultimately led her to cut contact with her mother. She walks through the moment that finally broke the cycle, the years of boundary setting that preceded it, and the grief that often accompanies estrangement. The conversation closes with reflections on healing, journaling as a lifelong practice, and what it means to build a chosen life outside of family dysfunction.This is Sisters in Sobriety, the support community that helps women change their relationship with alcohol. Check out our substack for extra tips, tricks and resources.Episode Highlights00:00 – Introducing Dr. Sherrie Campbell and the topic of toxic family relationships02:30 – Why family estrangement is often misunderstood04:10 – The difference between single-incident conflict and chronic family dysfunction05:40 – Why parents are responsible for repairing relationships with their children07:20 – How boundaries are meant to preserve relationships, not destroy them08:10 – The common behaviors of emotionally abusive parents10:15 – Why emotional abuse can be difficult to recognize inside families11:00 – A personal example of subtle emotional humiliation12:30 – Emotional abuse vs. emotional neglect explained14:00 – What “protective estrangement” really means15:30 – The metaphor of the house, yard, and fence for setting boundaries18:30 – Why estrangement usually follows decades of boundary violations21:00 – How long many adult children try to repair relationships before cutting ties24:00 – The intersection of childhood trauma and substance use25:00 – Why people turn to alcohol or other coping behaviors27:30 – Lessons learned from working with addiction recovery groups29:30 – What changes internally when someone gets sober31:00 – Why addiction recovery requires responsibility and self-respect33:30 – The first steps toward healing from family trauma36:30 – Rebuilding self-trust after toxic parenting39:00 – Dr. Campbell’s personal healing practices and journaling ritual41:00 – Breaking generational cycles through love and conscious parentingDr. Sherrie's LinksLink to TEDx talk: https://youtu.be/deyHwDkG7oc?si=vy7p-wD6MvgwCfR-Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.sherrie/SIS Links💌 Sisters In Sobriety Substack – where the magic (and the mocktail recipes) happen📬 Sisters In Sobriety Email📸 Sisters In Sobriety Instagram🌐 Kathleen’s Website Kathleen does not endorse any products mentioned in this podcast📸 Kathleen’s Instagram Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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