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I Mean This In The Nicest Way Possible

I Mean This In The Nicest Way Possible

Von: Richard Mills
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Welcome to I Mean This in the Nicest Way Possible — the unapologetically honest podcast from artist and author Richard Armande Mills (RAM). Hosted by RAM, this show dives into the real work behind becoming who you actually are. Each episode blends honest reflection, cultural commentary, and the unapologetic belief that you’re allowed to want more for yourself. Expect confession-meets-commentary, a dash of pop culture, humor, depth, personal stories, and the kind of truth you’d only say to your closest friend — in the nicest way possible.

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  • You Should Quit Your Job
    Jan 21 2026

    Episode 3: “You Should Quit Your Job”

    If you’ve ever stared at your computer screen wondering if it’s normal to feel this drained by 10 a.m… this episode is for you.

    In this episode of I Mean This In The Nicest Way Possible, RAM gently (but firmly) challenges the myth of “sticking it out” at a job that’s quietly dismantling your confidence, health, and spirit. He’s not telling you to storm out or quit dramatically — he’s asking you to tell the truth about what your job is actually costing you.

    This week, RAM dives deep into the psychology, physiology, and emotional erosion that happens when you stay in roles you’ve outgrown. From burnout to identity shrinkage, from learned helplessness to chronic stress, you’ll see why a “stable job” can become anything but stable when it stops aligning with who you’re becoming.

    You’ll hear about:
    The Stay-and-Decay Mindset — RAM’s name for the slow spiral that keeps people stuck
    How bad jobs “get under the skin” and impact your sleep, mood, health, boundaries, and nervous system
    • Why burnout isn’t a personal failure — but a mismatch between you and your environment
    • Real stories of people who finally left toxic roles and only then saw the damage clearly
    • The opportunity cost of staying somewhere your soul already walked away from

    Then RAM gets personal. He opens up about being fired — not because he wasn’t good, but because he stayed somewhere that didn’t deserve him. What felt like a blow at the time became the turning point that launched everything he’s building now.

    You’ll learn:
    • How reselling became a fast source of cash and momentum
    • How he began monetizing his creative gifts — music, writing, consulting, content
    • Why you don’t need a huge budget to reinvent yourself — just clarity and strategy
    • How he used “downtime as blueprint time” instead of spiraling
    • The Alignment Compass he uses now to determine what environments earn his energy

    This isn’t about romanticizing quitting.
    It isn’t about reckless decisions.
    It’s about refusing to normalize a job that is actively dimming you.

    It’s about understanding that:
    Stability is not the same thing as safety.
    And survival is not the same thing as living.

    If you’ve got 25 minutes, RAM means this in the nicest way possible:
    stop pretending the job that’s breaking you is “just adulthood.”
    You deserve a life — and a career — that supports the person you’re becoming.

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    26 Min.
  • Stop Leaving Your House Frumpy
    Jan 14 2026

    If you’ve ever sprinted out the door in yesterday’s vibe, prayed you wouldn’t run into anyone you know, and then immediately did… Welcome home, babe.

    In this episode of I Mean This In The Nicest Way Possible, RAM comes for the one habit we all claim isn’t a big deal but absolutely is: showing up in the world like we gave up before noon. And he means this lovingly — but your frump era? It’s done.

    This week, RAM breaks down the psychology, chemistry, bias, energy, and literal neuroscience behind how you present yourself. From dopamine loops to enclothed cognition, from first-impression heuristics to Paris Hilton wisdom, you’ll learn why your outfit isn’t superficial — it’s psychological programming.

    You’ll hear about:
    • Why grooming triggers a dopamine motivation cycle
    • The science of enclothed cognition and how clothes shift your behavior
    • How humans judge in milliseconds (and how to use that reality, not resent it)
    • A story of a white suit, a gold accent moment, and the conference that changed everything
    • Why effort = autonomy, not oppression
    • The Look Back Law — RAM’s rule that will save you from being caught slipping
    • The truth about “pretty privilege” and presentation bias
    • How intentional style boosts confidence, magnetism, and opportunity

    And then RAM spills the actual strategy:
    • How he budgets for clothing without losing his mind
    • How reselling keeps his wardrobe fresh (and funds itself)
    • Why he refuses to pay retail (ever)
    • How he curates daily style based on energy, not rules
    • The one-day challenge that will shift your entire aura

    This isn’t about designer labels, perfection, or pretending to be someone you’re not.
    It’s about intention.
    It’s about showing up as the version of yourself you actually like.
    It’s about treating yourself like someone worth being seen.

    If you’ve got 20 minutes, RAM means this in the nicest way possible: Stop leaving the house frumpy.
    Your future self deserves better — and he’s about to show you exactly how to get there.

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    22 Min.
  • Put Your Damn Phone Down
    Jan 7 2026

    If you’ve ever opened your phone “just to check something” and then suddenly realized you’ve lost forty-five minutes, your focus, and possibly your will to live… this episode is for you.

    In the debut of I Mean This In The Nicest Way Possible, RAM kicks things off with a loving slap of truth: your phone is ruining your sleep, your attention span, your relationships, your creativity, your mood… and yes, even your sex life. (He said what he said.)

    This episode dives into the psychology, neuroscience, and sheer chaos of doom-scrolling culture — from blue light melatonin sabotage to the heartbreaking epidemic of “absent presence.” RAM breaks down the research, exposes the algorithmic addiction cycle, and shares his own screen-time confessions (prepare yourself).

    But it’s not all fear-mongering. You’ll also learn:
    • Why the 1950 Rule will save your sanity
    • How a Barbie Phone became his unlikely peace coach
    • Why low-dopamine mornings feel like a personality reset
    • What happens when your work phone has no apps
    • And how sitting in silence might be the most rebellious thing you do in 2025

    Through storytelling, science, and a few perfectly timed Whitney Houston references, RAM explores what really happens when we stop scrolling past our lives and start living them again.

    If you’ve got 20 minutes, he means this in the nicest way possible… put your damn phone down.

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    20 Min.
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