In episode number lucky thirteen, we chat about sensory issues: why music turned up to 11 is better than ambient conversations; why the goddamned house is always so goddamned cold; the dreaded microfiber; and more!

Summary

In this holiday-themed episode, Jenn and Graeme discuss their complex feelings about various holidays, including Thanksgiving and Christmas. They explore the stress and obligations that come with family gatherings, the challenges of food choices, and the importance of traditions. The conversation also touches on New Year's resolutions and the pressure associated with them, ultimately reflecting on the significance of holidays in marking the passage of time.

We're talking about everyone's favorite autistic 'feature', meltdowns. Just losing our minds here.

Some links, as promised:

Meltdowns: a guide for all audiences

Meltdown vs. Shutdown

In this conversation, we discusses the complexities of neurodivergent bodies, exploring themes such as stimming, interoception, comorbidities, sleep issues, and sensory sensitivities. The dialogue emphasizes the unique experiences of individuals with ADHD and autism, highlighting the physical and emotional challenges they face. The conversation also touches on the importance of understanding these experiences to foster empathy and support .

Election, Covid, Arguments, you know, life! We miss you we'll be back soon!

Some Shit We Said

"It's the most wonderful time of the year."

"I have always been obsessed with death."

"I cannot think of one single bad thing about Halloween."

In this episode, the Jenn and Graeme visit the topic of special interests, particularly in the context of neurodivergence and autism. They discuss the nature of special interests, how they differ from hobbies, and the intensity with which individuals may engage with them. The conversation explores the role of compulsion, the phenomenon of info dumping, and the challenges of navigating conversations about special interests. They also touch on the impact of diagnosis on identity and the complexities of authority in relation to neurodivergent individuals.

• Special interests can be seen as obsessions that bring joy.
• The intensity of a special interest can take over one's life.
• There is a distinction between hobbies and special interests based on engagement.
• Info dumping is a common behavior among those with special interests.
• Compulsion can be a significant aspect of special interests.
• Navigating conversations about special interests requires sensitivity.
• Special interests often reflect a person's identity and passions.
• Diagnosis can provide validation for individuals with special interests.
• Neurodivergent individuals may have unique relationships with authority figures.
• Understanding special interests can foster better communication and connection.

Summary

In this episode, Jennifer and Graeme discuss the complexities of communication in neurodiverse relationships, focusing on directness, honesty, and the challenges of understanding subtext and nonverbal cues. They explore the importance of context in conversations, the impact of social contracts on communication, and the nuances of flirting and dating as neurodivergent individuals. The conversation emphasizes the need for clear communication and understanding in relationships, highlighting the unique experiences of neurodiverse individuals.