What do you do when you’re craving intimacy, but your partner isn’t on the same page? How do you express desire without guilt or pressure — and still get your needs met?

In this episode of Honest Feedback, we answer a tender listener question from a husband trying to navigate a season of mismatched intimacy with his wife. With humor, honesty, and lived experience, we unpack the deeper dynamics of sexual disconnection and offer real, tangible ways to reconnect with your partner and yourself.

Brittney and Lisset share their own journey through mismatched libido, healing sexual trauma, and redefining what intimacy actually means in a long-term relationship. We talk about sex beyond penetration, spontaneous vs. responsive desire, creating rituals of curiosity, and the power of pleasure-centered communication. Plus, shoutouts to books (Come As You Are & Come Together), mentors (hi Libido Fairy), and the truth that sex is supposed to be fun.

Whether you’re the one with higher desire or the one feeling pressure, this episode is here to help you navigate the conversation with love, honesty, and a whole lot of laughter.

This episode is for you if:

• You’ve ever felt the sting of sexual rejection (or feared giving it)
• You want more intimacy but don’t know how to ask
• You’re ready to expand what sex can look like in a long-term relationship
• You’re craving new tools, perspective, and permission to talk about it

Resources Mentioned:

• Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski
• Come Together by Emily Nagoski
• Libido Fairy (Hannah Decker – @libidofairy)

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Join us every week as we explore real stories, actionable advice, and deep truths to support your journey of self-discovery and growth. Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review Honest Feedback wherever you get your podcasts!

Honest Feedback was created by Brittney King and Lisset King.

Note: Honest Feedback Podcast aims to provide insights and provoke thoughtful reflection. The opinions expressed in this episode are for informational purposes only and should not replace professional advice.

Please send us your questions by leaving a voicemail at 971-895-4111, DM us on instagram @honestfeedbackpodcast or email us at thekings@honestfeedbackpodcast.com

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What happens when the life you've carefully built no longer resonates with your soul?

In this deeply moving episode of Honest Feedback, we sit down with medicine woman and retreat facilitator Dayana Mendoza (@dayanamendoza.us), who shares her extraordinary journey from trauma to transformation. Born during the Pablo Escobar era in Colombia and raised amid violence and loss, Dayana was working as a butcher by the age of 12. She immigrated to the U.S. at 17, eventually building a life that looked like success on paper: career at Apple, marriage, children, but felt empty inside.

"I was surrounded with so many people… and I felt so lonely," she says.

We talk about the courage it takes to step away from the familiar, the heartbreak of outgrowing relationships, and the sacred process of re-remembering who you are. Dayana walks us through the threshold moment that changed everything, when she left her job, her marriage, and her social circles to walk the unknown path of healing. Through the wisdom of plant medicine—especially ayahuasca—Dayana reconnected to her purpose and ancestral roots. What followed was a complete rebirth.

This episode is a powerful transmission on:

• What true transformation really looks like
• Healing beyond talk therapy and into the body
• The difference between processing and actual change
• Walking away from what no longer resonates, even when it looks “perfect”
• The power of trusting the unknown (especially when it makes no sense)

Dayana's story will stir something deep inside you. Whether you're navigating a rock bottom or feeling the pull toward your next level, this is your reminder that healing isn’t a destination—it’s a decision to honor what your soul already knows.

Connect with Dayana Mendoza
Instagram: @dayanamendoza.us
Website: www.spiritroute.co
Explore her sacred retreats, including an upcoming Egypt Retreat on 11/11.

This episode is sponsored by The Goddess Experience
A luxury 5-day retreat in Puerto Vallarta for women ready to break free from the life that looks good on paper—but feels hollow in the heart. If you’re craving connection, clarity, and confidence to walk your next path, this is for you.
→ Apply now www.goddessbrittneyking.com/goddess
This is an intimate experience for 9 women, as of this recording there are only 4 open spaces. Early bird pricing is available until Sept 2025.

Honest Feedback was created by Brittney King and Lisset King.

Note: Honest Feedback Podcast aims to provide insights and provoke thoughtful reflection. The opinions expressed in this episode are for informational purposes only and should not replace professional advice.

Please send us your questions by leaving a voicemail at 971-895-4111, DM us on instagram @honestfeedbackpodcast or email us at thekings@honestfeedbackpodcast.com

Keep up with the podcast by following us @HonestFeedbackPodcast on YouTube

In this juicy and joy-filled Ask Me Anything episode, Goddess Brittney and Lisset open up the vault and answer your burning questions about love, partnership, freedom, and the power of magic (and masturbation). From navigating non-monogamy and defining “the one,” to manifesting money with your body and singing lost items back into existence—this episode is packed with wisdom, laughter, vulnerability, and real-life rituals that actually work.

You’ll hear intimate stories from their relationship—including the hardest moment in their marriage—and how they moved through it with honesty, tools, and heart. Whether you’re looking to deepen your connections, rekindle your joy, or get curious about the spiritual side of sexuality, this one’s for you.

What We Cover:

• How to balance freedom and connection in relationship
• How they knew they were each other’s person
• The hardest moment in their marriage (and what it healed)
• How to recover when you feel like giving up on your path
• Weird-but-true magical rituals that changed their lives
• Manifesting money through pleasure (yes, really)

Timestamps:
00:00 – Opening truth bomb: “You can get through anything… if both people are willing to show up”
02:00 – Ask Us Anything begins!
03:11 – Balancing freedom & connection in a conscious relationship
11:41 – “How did you know you were each other’s person?”
18:10 – The hardest moment in their marriage (and how it transformed them)
23:07 – Have you ever felt like giving up on your path?
28:03 – Weird & magical things that actually work (singing to lost things, manifesting through orgasms)
32:51 – Outro + how to submit your own question!

You are invited...
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Honest Feedback was created by Brittney King and Lisset King.

Note: Honest Feedback Podcast aims to provide insights and provoke thoughtful reflection. The opinions expressed in this episode are for informational purposes only and should not replace professional advice.

Please send us your questions by leaving a voicemail at 971-895-4111, DM us on instagram @honestfeedbackpodcast or email us at thekings@honestfeedbackpodcast.com

Keep up with the podcast by following us @HonestFeedbackPodcast on YouTube