This week, Mario and Pat go all in on the realities of loving someone from miles away. They talk about: The mental side of being apart Jealousy and insecurity (yeah, we’re saying it) How communication changes when physical presence is gone Whether distance builds connection… or exposes cracks And the question nobody wants to ask: Are some relationships only good because of the distance? Mario opens up about what distance really does to a man emotionally — especially when life, kids, business, and stress are already in the mix. Pat challenges the idea of “if it’s meant to be, it’ll work” and breaks down what actually keeps long distance alive.

We’ve all heard the phrase “make-up sex” but what’s really going on underneath it? In this episode, Pat & Mario unpack the emotional psychology behind reconnecting physically after conflict. Is it genuine repair, a release of tension, or a way to avoid the harder conversations?

We talk about vulnerability, ego, attachment, and why intimacy can feel so intense after an argument. When does make-up sex actually bring couples closer… and when does it quietly mask unresolved issues?

This is an honest, thoughtful conversation about communication, emotional safety, and learning the difference between connection and distraction. If you’ve ever wondered why the closeness hits differently after a fight, this episode is for you.

On this episode of the Got It Podcast, Pat and Mario get real about the moments that feel like everything is falling apart: failed relationships, lost jobs, missed opportunities, and the quiet self-doubt that follows. They talk openly about how those painful endings often carry hidden direction pushing us toward growth, clarity, and paths we never would’ve chosen otherwise.

With honesty, humor, and a few hard truths, this conversation is for anyone who’s been knocked down and is wondering “What now?” If you’re in a season of loss, confusion, or transition, this episode reminds you that sometimes failure isn’t a setback it’s a redirection toward something better.