You can’t manufacture more time—but you can restore and expand your energy. In this episode, Marissa and Joel explore the “time-energy paradox” and why so many productivity strategies backfire by leaving you exhausted. They unpack three major energy drains and share practical strategies to give your mind and body more opportunities for truly restorative rest.

Key Takeaways

• Time Is Fixed. Energy Isn’t. You can’t add hours to your week, but you can bring better energy to the hours you already have.
• Screens Often Masquerade as Rest. Streaming and scrolling feel like “checking out,” but they overstimulate your brain. Instead? Get outside (trust us).
• Try Walking Meetings. When you can, take a meeting by phone and go for a walk. Less screen time, more oxygen, better energy.
• Information Overload Has a Cost. We’re not built to process constant updates, endless content, and every crisis on-demand. Consuming less information today is one of the simplest ways to have more energy tomorrow.
• Protect Sleep (For Real). Sleep is how your body and brain restore. Many people chronically undersleep, then wonder why everything feels harder than it should.
• Make Bedtime More Attractive. If there’s nothing attractive about your bedtime routine, you’ll resist sleep. Design a calming, simple, enjoyable rhythm you actually look forward to.
• Run an “Energy Experiment.” Don’t overhaul your life. Pick one change for one week (earlier bedtime, outdoor breaks, screen cutoff time) and see what happens.

Watch on YouTube at: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3zL4lWd_fak

This episode was produced by Sarah Vorhees Wendel of VW Sound

Most people blame their phones for their lack of productivity, but the real culprit is sneakier: overestimation. In this episode, Marissa and Joel unpack why we consistently plan for best-case scenarios and then spiral when real life doesn’t cooperate. You’ll learn how overestimating your capacity, self-control, productivity, and ability to “catch up” creates unnecessary stress, erodes trust, and drains your resources. Most importantly, they’ll show you how to set up a game you can actually win.

Key Takeaways

• Plan for Reality, Not Best-Case Scenarios. We build days around “perfect conditions,” then feel behind by lunch. Assume interruptions, limited energy, and real-life constraints—and plan accordingly.
• Stop Overbooking Your Capacity. If your calendar has no margin, exhaustion is inevitable. Build buffers for transitions, downtime, and breaks so your day can breathe.
• Use Your Ideal Week to Set Pace, Not Max Output. The Ideal Week isn’t “How much can I cram in?” It’s “How do I work and live at my best?” Include recovery time and whitespace.
• Assume Self-Control Drops as the Day Goes On. Discipline is finite. The later it gets (and the more drained you are), the easier it is to binge, scroll, snack, or procrastinate. In response, design your environment to support your discipline instead of relying on it.
• Give Everything More Time Than You Think. The planning fallacy hits everyone. Add cushion so you finish more consistently. Practically, plan 150–200% of the time you think it will take.
• Make Room for “Stuff I Forgot to Plan For.” Surprises aren’t exceptions—they’re normal. Create a weekly block for the tasks and problems that inevitably pop up.
• Let the Daily Big 3 Keep You Grounded. Your Ideal Week is the vision. The Daily Big 3 is the reality check. If you’re not finishing, choose smaller targets and rebuild momentum.

Watch on YouTube at: https://youtu.be/EdW89LAMJ90

This episode was produced by Sarah Vorhees Wendel of VW Sound

Would you plant flowers in December—or plan a ski trip in June? Probably not. But many of us do the equivalent with our goals: we try to force outcomes that don’t match our actual capacity, energy, or reality. In this episode, Marissa and Joel walk through five “seasons” you may find yourself in—sowing, fallow, tending, pruning, and harvest—plus the hidden danger in each one and the most effective response. You’ll also learn seven distinct kinds of rest and how to use the Weekly Preview to identify your season and take the right next step.

Key Takeaways

• The Year is Full of Seasons. There’s a natural ebb and flow to life, not just nature. Acting like it’s spring when you’re actually in winter won’t help you. Name the season you’re in and orient around what’s true right now, not what the New Year says.
• Sowing Season: Choose Focus Over Frenzy. When you’re ready to start new opportunities, the danger is starting too many things while motivation is high. The fix: pick one or two goals that actually move the needle and let the rest wait.
• Fallow Season: Rest on Purpose. After a sprint (or a crisis), your system needs recovery. Choose the kind of rest you actually need—physical, mental, sensory, creative, emotional, social, or spiritual.
• Tending Season: Reconnect to Vision. Don’t let “business as usual” make you forget why you started. Keep your why in view so you don’t drift off course.
• Pruning Season: Prevent Ineffectiveness. Just like plants, we become less fruitful when we’re trying to do too much at once. Pruning helps you create margin and center your energy where it can have the greatest effect.
• Harvest Season: Choose Boundaries (Fight FOMO). Momentum is great—overextension isn’t. Decide what must happen now, what can wait, and when the sprint ends.
• Align Your Plans and Your Season. During your Weekly Preview, name your season, watch for its danger signs, and plan your week accordingly. Work with the grain, and you’ll get fewer splinters.

Watch on YouTube at: https://youtu.be/QpzDeHQIjmw

This episode was produced by Sarah Vorhees Wendel of VW Sound