Jason Seeman, founder of Raising Fathers, joins Steve Hodgson on The Noise of Life Podcast to explore modern fatherhood, conscious parenting and what it truly means to become a father in today’s world. Not just biologically, but emotionally. Not just as a financial provider, but as a regulated, self-aware, emotionally intelligent man.

In this powerful conversation on fatherhood and masculinity, we unpack the transition from boy to man and from man to father - two rites of passage many men were never guided through. Jason reflects on the generational models of masculinity many of us inherited: fathers who were loving yet emotionally guarded, men shaped by war, survival, responsibility and silence. We explore how unresolved childhood experiences, generational trauma and emotional suppression quietly echo through families unless consciously interrupted.

This episode dives deep into emotional intelligence in parenting as a daily practice - not theory. We discuss emotional regulation, anger management, repair after conflict and how a father’s tone, presence and reactions shape a child’s nervous system and sense of safety. Jason shares a powerful reframe around discipline and parenting styles, explaining why fear-based compliance may change behaviour short-term but can impact confidence and emotional security long-term.

We also explore modern relationships and marriage dynamics - including cognitive load imbalance, communication breakdown, partnership conflict and rebuilding intimacy with intention. Practical tools such as structured relationship check-ins, emotional awareness practices, and conscious communication strategies are shared to help fathers strengthen connection at home.

At its core, this episode is about self-awareness, compassion and breaking generational cycles. It’s about recognising inherited patterns, regulating ourselves before regulating our children and understanding that children model the behaviour they observe.

If you are a father, an expecting dad, navigating co-parenting, healing your relationship with your own father or exploring men’s mental health and emotional wellbeing, this episode will resonate deeply.

Inside this podcast:

- Why modern fatherhood is a missed rite of passage

- How intergenerational trauma shapes parenting styles

- Why fear based discipline creates long term insecurity

- The role of emotional regulation in raising resilient children

- How couples can reconnect through awareness and intentional communication

Connect with Jason:

Linktree → https://bio.site/raisingfathers

Website → https://www.raising-fathers.com/

Connect with Steve:

Instagram → https://bit.ly/3KARQhR

LinkedIn → https://bit.ly/48sw8Vj

Episode Highlights

00:00:00 - The difference between sound and noise in life

00:05:00 - Wanting to be a father from childhood

00:07:00 - The rite of passage from man to father

00:09:00 - Media stereotypes of modern fathers

00:11:00 - Emotional openness and inherited silence

00:12:00 - “Make sure you don’t yell at your wife”

00:14:00 - Intergenerational trauma and Holocaust survival imprint

00:24:00 - Breaking unconscious parenting patterns

00:28:00 - Modeling apology and repair for

children

00:31:00 - Aggression, tone, and fear based compliance

00:45:00 - Relationship strain after children

00:54:00 - The power of structured check ins

00:58:00 - Intimacy and connection as relational glue

01:03:00 - Conflict as a feature, not a flaw

01:07:00 - Self compassion before behavior change

01:10:00 - The belief that “I must be perfect to be good enough”

01:11:00 - Doing the real work behind closed doors

ABOUT THE PODCAST SHOW

The Noise of Life is a podcast that shares real stories, raw truths, and remarkable growth. Hosted by Steve Hodgson a coach, facilitator, speaker and Mental Health First Aid Instructor. This podcast dives deep into the “noise” we all face, the distractions, doubts and challenges that can pull us away from who we truly are.