In this episode, I get real about what true friendship and brotherhood cost. Following up from last week’s powerful conversation with my brother Jonathan Vasquez, I dive into what it means to find your dot, your twelve, and your inner circle — the people who ride with you when life gets messy.

I talk about:

• How I had to live out what I’ve been teaching on this podcast
• The power of having men in your life who will pray for you, challenge you, and go to war for you
• Why not every battle should be fought in public — some victories belong to the private space
• What real friendship costs: vulnerability, accountability, and honesty
• How to take inventory of your friendships and build intentional brotherhood
• Finding rhythm over balance in life and becoming 1% better each day

This episode is personal. It’s about learning to lean on your brothers, carry each other’s burdens (Galatians 6:2), and find strength in godly community.

Action Points:

1. Write down your friends and circle your closest ones.
2. Star the ones who would answer your call at 3 a.m.
3. Set expectations — talk regularly, check in intentionally.
4. Be the first to lead by example.
5. Find a mentor or spiritual father who’s been where you’re going.

If you’ve been feeling alone or trying to carry too much by yourself — this one’s for you.

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