In Episode 18 of The Family Architect: Parenting by Design Rather Than by Default, Philippa introduces a powerful, practical tool from The Regulated Mother Method™: The 60-Second Protocol.

This isn’t about perfection. It’s about what you do in the very first minute after being triggered — because those 60 seconds often decide whether you default to old patterns or create a new pathway of connection.

Inside this episode, you’ll discover:

• Why your brain forgets everything you know about parenting when you’re triggered (and why that’s not a flaw).
• The 3 steps to take in the first 60 seconds:
  1. Stop – Pause and name what’s happening.
  2. Breathe + Move – Reset your nervous system with breath and simple movements.
  3. Anchor a Choice – Whisper a grounding phrase that rewires the old story.
• How to personalise your anchoring phrase depending on your Trigger Archetype.
• Real-life stories from mothers who have used this protocol to transform meltdowns, disrespect, and overwhelm into moments of reconnection.
• Why “repair, not perfection” is the true goal of parenting by design.

This tool is simple, science-based, and available to you anytime, anywhere. It’s not about being calm all the time — it’s about reclaiming your power in the heat of the moment.

👉 Take the Awakening Trigger Map™ Quiz here: go.fantasticfuture.com.au/awakeningtriggermap