Why does the transition to work feel like a threat, even when you love what you do?

In this raw and revealing episode of Unmasked, host Kedra Flowers explores the neurological roots of work anxiety, pathological demand avoidance (PDA), and the AuDHD experience.

Kedra shares a deeply personal ChatGPT conversation that unpacks why her nervous system reacts with fear at the exact moment she shifts from self-directed time to work obligations—a pattern that traces back to elementary school. This isn't about laziness, lack of gratitude, or being in the wrong career. It's about understanding how masking, chronic overload, and loss of autonomy create a conditioned threat response.

In this episode, you'll discover:

• Why work transition anxiety feels different from general anxiety
• The connection between pathological demand avoidance (PDA) and persistent drive for autonomy
• How AuDHD nervous systems respond to structured obligations
• Why you feel amazing during self-directed time but stressed when demands appear
• The hidden cost of masking: autoimmune conditions and chronic overload
• Practical tools for protecting your nervous system during high-demand seasons
• Why your body reacts faster than your mind at role transitions

Key topics: autism, ADHD, AuDHD, pathological demand avoidance, PDA, work anxiety, neurodivergent, unmasking, nervous system regulation, demand avoidance, autistic burnout, late diagnosis, self-discovery, mental health, neurodiversity

Perfect for anyone who's ever felt paralyzed at the starting line, questioned why simple transitions feel so hard, or wondered if their body is trying to tell them something important.

Unmasked is about saying the thing you usually think through first—the truth that gets edited, softened, or swallowed. These conversations are not polished. They're simply honest.