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Is it love… or just the spark?

In this episode of In Session, we’re unpacking one of the most confusing dynamics in modern relationships: the tension between emotional safety and chemistry. Many people feel torn between relationships that feel exciting but unstable, and ones that feel secure but unfamiliar—or even boring.

We explore how chemistry often activates the nervous system, why emotional safety can feel flat if you’re used to chaos, and how attachment patterns shape what we interpret as attraction. Most importantly, we talk about whether you really have to choose between safety and passion or if healthy relationships allow space for both to grow.

If you’ve ever wondered:

• “Why do I miss relationships that weren’t good for me?”
• “Why doesn’t this healthy connection feel exciting?”
• “Am I settling or healing?”

This episode is for you.

Insightful, grounding, and deeply validating. This conversation will help you rethink what love actually feels like when it’s healthy.

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