In this episode of Dying for a Cuppa, I’m joined by Paul Radcliffe from Laurelo for a conversation that genuinely surprised me.

If you’d ever told me probate could be interesting — even inspiring — I’d have laughed. But this chat was honestly so enlightening. Paul takes what is usually a total minefield and explains probate with real clarity, in language that actually makes sense. We explore what probate really is (process, paperwork, or something else entirely), whether it’s something you even need, and walk through a whole range of real-life scenarios that people commonly face.

This is one of those episodes where the fog lifts. It might feel daunting if you’re navigating a loss or know probate is on the horizon, but I can truly say this is exactly the kind of conversation you want in your ears. It’s calm, clear, reassuring — and surprisingly uplifting.

So pop the kettle on, settle in with a cuppa, and prepare to feel far more informed and less overwhelmed. Huge thanks to Paul and the team at Lorello for being so open and generous with their knowledge. They’re absolutely there if you need support, and I’ll share their website below.

https://laurelo.co.uk/

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In this episode of Dying for a Cuppa, I’m joined by Katie Wellman, professional home organiser and declutterer, for a really honest chat about STUFF and why it’s so hard to let go of it.

We talk about the emotional weight our belongings carry, why decluttering can feel overwhelming, and the difference it makes when things are sorted before someone dies compared to after. Katie shares gentle, practical insights into why we keep what we keep, why the little things often matter the most, and how organising and decluttering can be an act of care for ourselves and for those we love.

It’s relatable, thoughtful, and quietly motivating.

So grab a cuppa, maybe a bit of cake, take a look around your own space… you might just feel inspired to make a few changes of your own.

https://makeroomtobreathe.co.uk/

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This week on Dying for a Cuppa I’m joined by the glorious Lee-Anne Duncan, joining us all the way from New Zealand.

Lee-Anne is a writer and journalist, and also a bereaved child. She lost her mum at just eight years old, an experience that went on to shape her life’s work. Today, Leanne dedicates her time to exploring the long-term impact of childhood bereavement, listening deeply to others who lost one or both parents young and gathering their stories with real care and integrity.

This is a long one (two talkers, no surprises there), but it’s long for all the right reasons. We didn’t want to cut anything out because the insights shared are just too valuable. Leanne talks about her research, the interviews she’s conducted, and what those early losses can mean for behaviour, emotions, identity, and how people move through the world as adults.

We also have the huge privilege of hearing about Māori traditions around death, dying, and funerals, offering a powerful cultural perspective on grief, ritual, and community.

So yes, pop the kettle on. Maybe grab a few biscuits too. This episode is a gentle, thoughtful, and deeply meaningful listen. Please know we talk about death and dying very openly. And if this resonates with you as someone who lost a parent young, we’d really love to hear your thoughts. Lee-Annes link is below if you’d like to get in touch or explore her work further.

https://www.tooyoung.org.nz

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