Why We Doomscroll and How to Break the Cycle

Doomscrolling has become a familiar part of modern life, especially during times of uncertainty, stress or overwhelm. In this episode, I explore what doomscrolling actually is, why so many of us find ourselves stuck in it, and what’s happening in our brains when we can’t stop scrolling through bad news.

I talk about the role of our nervous system, how fear and threat keep us hooked, and why doomscrolling can feel compulsive even when it leaves us feeling worse. This isn’t about blaming ourselves or relying on willpower, but about understanding the psychology behind the behaviour and responding with curiosity rather than judgement.

I also share practical ways to interrupt the cycle, reduce its impact on your mental health, and build more awareness around how and when you consume news and social media. Small, intentional changes can make a real difference to how safe, grounded and present we feel.

This episode offers a compassionate look at doomscrolling, why it makes sense in the context of how our brains work, and how we can begin to regain a sense of choice and balance.

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Trauma doesn’t just live in our thoughts and memories. It also shows up in the body, often in ways we don’t consciously recognise. In this episode, I explore how EMDR therapy and the concept of the body score can support recovery from trauma.

I talk about what the body score is, how it’s used within EMDR, and why paying attention to physical sensations can be such an important part of healing. Rather than focusing only on what we think or remember, EMDR helps us notice how trauma is held in the body and gently work with those sensations in a safe, structured way.

I also reflect on why this approach can be especially helpful for people who struggle to put their experiences into words, or who feel “stuck” despite understanding their trauma intellectually. By involving the body as well as the mind, EMDR can support deeper processing and integration.

This episode offers an accessible introduction to EMDR and the body score, how they work together, and why body-based approaches can play a vital role in trauma recovery.

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Artificial intelligence is becoming part of everyday life, and it’s starting to show up more and more in conversations about mental health - in this episode, I explore what that actually means.

I talk about how AI and technology are currently being used to support mental wellbeing, including the growing use of mental health chatbots and purpose-built AI tools designed to help with things like stress, anxiety and emotional regulation. These tools can offer accessibility, structure and support, especially for people who may not be able to access traditional therapy right away.

I also look at the limitations. While AI can be a useful addition to a wellbeing toolkit, it isn’t a replacement for working with a qualified clinician. Technology can offer prompts, reflection and guidance, but it can’t replicate human insight, therapeutic judgement or the relationship that sits at the heart of effective mental health care.

This episode is an honest look at the pros and cons of AI for mental health, how it might be used responsibly, and why it’s important to understand where technology fits and where human support remains essential.

You can find out more, and support resources at www.wendycastelino.com

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Join CBT and EMDR therapist Wendy Castellino as she breaks down the real science behind wellness stacking. A habit that promises big mental health benefits with very little effort and a subject that is trending on social media. Wendy explains what it is, the real science behind it, why it works and why not doing it the right way makes things worse.

She shares 4 evidence-based wellness stacking strategies you can use immediately to boost your mood, energy, and resilience. Whether you’re just curious, or a busy person desperately looking for a manageable way to give your mental health a much-needed boost, this episode offers practical advice that is grounded in real research.

KEY TAKEAWAYS

• Wellness stacking means adding a small positive habit to something you already do e.g. After making your morning coffee, step outside for two minutes of daylight to reset your circadian rhythm. You´ll sleep better and feel less stressed.

• Tiny steps toward pleasure or achievement can break cycles of low mood e.g. 5 minutes of a book, one favourite song. Or, for productivity, 5 minutes on your language app, or dusting one room.

• When you do something, pause and congratulate yourself for taking action. It´s all part of training your mind to notice positives.

• Wellness stacks benefit everyone. They work particularly well for people who feel overwhelmed by big routines or have trouble being consistent.

• Let go of perfectionism, focus on repetition, and don’t be afraid to adjust stacks that aren’t working for you.

• If you still don´t feel good with wellness stacking, seek professional help.

BEST MOMENTS

"Wellness stacking is really just habit stacking applied to mental health."

"The power isn't in the size of the habit, it's in the link, the way your brain starts to connect this cue and this new behaviour."

"You are giving your brain a simple rule to follow, rather than a vague intention."

"You're not trying to invent an entirely new time slot in your day. You're piggybacking on something you already do."

"Remember, we're not chasing perfection. We're building small, repeatable actions that support your mental health in the messy reality of your actual life."

VALUABLE RESOURCES

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https://www.youtube.com/@wendycastelino798

https://twitter.com/WendyCastelino

ABOUT THE HOST

Wendy Castelino has been working as a psychotherapist for over thirty-five years. As an accredited CBT and EMDR practitioner, she is committed to upholding the rigorous standards required for these accreditations and helping thousands of people reach their full potential.

Wendy currently runs a private practice where her focus is on CBT. Therapy is constantly evolving into developing new techniques, so she studies hard to integrate them into her therapy, to provide a rich and effective experience.

Wendy is aware that working in one-to-one therapy limits the number of people she can see. She has, therefore, created a range of online resources. These resources are designed to be easy to follow and provide clear, step-by-step instructions. This can help the individual to master skills and gain confidence, therefore optimising the therapy sessions. They are also suitable to be used on their own.

Further details are available at: WendyCastelino.com.

This Podcast has been brought to you by Disruptive Media. https://disruptivemedia.co.uk/

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In this episode, Wendy is joined by Paul Grantham, Consultant Clinical Psychologist, Hon Professor of Clinical Psychology, Director of SDS Seminars Ltd and an Accredited CBT Therapist. Together, they explore the science and psychology behind motivation.

Paul shares practical strategies for building habits, overcoming setbacks, and understanding what truly drives us. Discover the roles of self-efficacy, rituals, and technology in creating lasting change, and learn how to turn motivation into meaningful action.

KEY TAKEAWAYS

Most people know what they need to do to make the changes they want, but they rarely know how to stay motivated for long enough.

Negative goals focus on eliminating a problem rather than pursuing a positive change e.g. wanting to "stop being depressed" instead of "feeling happier." They make you concentrate on what you want to avoid which keeps your attention on the problem itself and makes it harder to move forward.

If you doubt your ability to change, remind yourself where you’ve shown resilience or skill before, those strengths can help you succeed in new challenges.

Telling yourself, or others, off doesn´t work. You go into a siege mentality and disengage.

The right AI tools can help you with motivation. But the wrong ones can negatively impact you. Paul explains the difference.

Once you have made a change you need to maintain it until it becomes a habit. Paul explains how to motivate yourself through this stage.

BEST MOMENTS

“If we want to change, we need to focus on how what we are doing creates a problem for us.”

“We've got very good evidence indeed that actually doing things with someone else makes an enormous difference.”

“It's a bit like saying, are chainsaws good or bad? Well, they're both. It depends on whether you use them to cut off your leg or not.”

ABOUT THE GUEST

Paul Grantham, Consultant Clinical Psychologist, Hon Professor of Clinical Psychology and an Accredited CBT Therapist. He is Director of SDS Seminars Ltd, a UK-based international psychotherapy and behaviour change training organisation. He is also the author of a number of books including Practical Approaches to Motivating Clients (2017) and FREE YOURSELF FROM IMPOSTOR SYNDROME (2025).

Paul is based in Sussex, England and can be contacted via :

info@sds-seminars.com and www.skillsdevelopment.co.uk

Paul´s books - https://www.amazon.co.uk/stores/Paul-Grantham/author/B01N9GGGAA

VALUABLE RESOURCES

www.wendycastelino.com

https://www.instagram.com/wendycastelino/

https://www.youtube.com/@wendycastelino798

https://twitter.com/WendyCastelino

ABOUT THE HOST

Wendy Castelino has been working as a psychotherapist for over thirty-five years. As an accredited CBT and EMDR practitioner, she is committed to upholding the rigorous standards required for these accreditations and helping thousands of people reach their full potential.

Wendy currently runs a private practice where her focus is on CBT. Therapy is constantly evolving into developing new techniques, so she studies hard to integrate them into her therapy, to provide a rich and effective experience.

Wendy is aware that working in one-to-one therapy limits the number of people she can see. She has, therefore, created a range of online resources. These resources are designed to be easy to follow and provide clear, step-by-step instructions. This can help the individual to master skills and gain confidence, therefore optimising the therapy sessions. They are also suitable to be used on their own.

Further details are available at: WendyCastelino.com.

This Podcast has been brought to you by Disruptive Media. https://disruptivemedia.co.uk/

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In this episode, Wendy today is talking about positive psychology. She explains how to go from understanding the theory to rewiring your brain to actually take in and notice more positive emotions. She also talks, in detail, about ACT. An amazing therapy that fits in very well with positive psychology.

Wendy shares several very easy to use ways to use positive psychology to rewire your mind, so that you can enjoy a fuller, happier life. Things you can do to help you to refuse to live your life in the negative.

KEY TAKEAWAYS

If you find yourself focusing on what goes wrong rather than what is going right, you are far from alone, that is normal – how the human brain is wired to help us to recognise threats.

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps you to adjust to your inner world, your thoughts, your feelings, your beliefs, your behaviours so that you can get things in perspective.

Acting in line with your values helps you to grow your confidence and live a life that fits in with your values. That increases how meaningful your life feels.

Choosing acts of love and kindness enables you to flourish and creates positivity.

Noticing and reframing a negative or anxious thought takes the sting out of it. You put things back into perspective and see things in a more balanced way. Wendy shares several simple ways to do this anywhere, anytime.

BEST MOMENTS

“Why is it that I notice that everything I do, I notice the wrong rather than the right. I notice what goes bad rather than what goes good.”

“There's always a reason or a rationale as to why you avoid doing the thing that you know will actually push you forward, but then again, your brain pulls you back. .”

“rewire your brain to be less Velcro for pain and less Teflon for joy? .”

“We can't take away the pain, but we actually want to make room for other feelings as well, other than the pain.”

EPISODE RESOURCES

https://www.amazon.co.uk/Hardwiring-Happiness-Science-Contentment-Confidence/dp/0385347316

VALUABLE RESOURCES

www.wendycastelino.com

https://www.instagram.com/wendycastelino

https://www.youtube.com/@wendycastelino798

https://twitter.com/WendyCastelino

ABOUT THE HOST

Wendy Castelino has been working as a psychotherapist for over thirty-five years. As an accredited CBT and EMDR practitioner, she is committed to upholding the rigorous standards required for these accreditations and helping thousands of people reach their full potential.

Wendy currently runs a private practice where her focus is on CBT. Therapy is constantly evolving into developing new techniques, so she studies hard to integrate them into her therapy, to provide a rich and effective experience.

Wendy is aware that working in one-to-one therapy limits the number of people she can see. She has, therefore, created a range of online resources. These resources are designed to be easy to follow and provide clear, step-by-step instructions. This can help the individual to master skills and gain confidence, therefore optimising the therapy sessions. They are also suitable to be used on their own.

Further details are available at: WendyCastelino.com.

This Podcast has been brought to you by Disruptive Media. https://disruptivemedia.co.uk/

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In this episode, Wendy is joined by health and performance coach Byron Munford for a fast-paced, honest chat about modern masculinity, finding purpose, building resilience, and boosting your wellbeing—body and mind.

Over the past 17 years Byron has helped 100s of people to transform their lives, so this episode is packed with insights on relationships, mental health, mindset, the impact of social media, and why daily exercise matters.

KEY TAKEAWAYS

If you haven't found your purpose or your passion what's driving you in life, there's a lot higher risk of you losing your way. That is why finding your purpose, your passion is so important.

To optimize your health, fitness and well-being make it a priority to move your body every day.

Focus on building small but sustainable healthy habits and consistently work on improving your mindset. Together, these actions help create lasting physical and mental wellbeing.

Health and fitness are individual, and the real measure is continuous self-improvement and how you feel day to day.

Modern masculinity benefits from balancing strength with emotional openness.

Adaptability and honest communication are vital for both personal growth and relationships.

Seeing problems as learning opportunities leads to greater success than striving for perfection or fearing mistakes.

Taking responsibility for your own happiness and well-being helps build healthier relationships.

Don’t chase perfection. Instead, focus on persistence you’ll improve faster and achieve better results.

BEST MOMENTS

"You can choose to see a situation as a problem or a possibility."

"If you work on yourself as a person, it’s going to trickle down to every other aspect."

"Adaptability is a single greatest trait a human can have, because if you're adaptable, whether you like it or not, your life's going to change, whether that's for the for the better, for worse."

"I think people, in my eyes nowadays, don't stick at things long enough to see a result. So, if you're going to be in a relationship, just commit to that person."

ABOUT THE GUEST

Byron Munford a health and performance coach with 17 years of experience transforming 100s of lives.

I do this through helping high performers to optimise their cognition, supercharge their health and get in the best shape of their lives in as little as 3 months.

https://www.lifestylerevolution.co.uk

www.linkedin.com/in/byron-munford-652071268

https://www.instagram.com/the_lifestyle_revolution

https://www.facebook.com/Lifestylerevolution

VALUABLE RESOURCES

www.wendycastelino.com

https://www.instagram.com/wendycastelino/

https://www.youtube.com/@wendycastelino798

https://twitter.com/WendyCastelino

ABOUT THE HOST

Wendy Castelino has been working as a psychotherapist for over thirty-five years. As an accredited CBT and EMDR practitioner, she is committed to upholding the rigorous standards required for these accreditations and helping thousands of people reach their full potential.

Wendy currently runs a private practice where her focus is on CBT. Therapy is constantly evolving into developing new techniques, so she studies hard to integrate them into her therapy, to provide a rich and effective experience.

Wendy is aware that working in one-to-one therapy limits the number of people she can see. She has, therefore, created a range of online resources. These resources are designed to be easy to follow and provide clear, step-by-step instructions. This can help the individual to master skills and gain confidence, therefore optimising the therapy sessions. They are also suitable to be used on their own.

Further details are available at: WendyCastelino.com.

This Podcast has been brought to you by Disruptive Media. https://disruptivemedia.co.uk/

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In this episode, Wendy talks about something virtually everyone experiences - intrusive thoughts. Those sudden, unwanted ideas, images or even urges that pop into your mind and make you think, why on earth did I just think that? If you've ever had a thought that shocked you or didn't fit your values, you're not broken and you're definitely not alone.

By the end of this episode, you'll know what intrusive thoughts are, why they feel so sticky and evidence-based ways to manage them using tools from Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Compassion-Focused Therapy (CFT), Mindfulness and Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT).

KEY TAKEAWAYS

•Intrusive thoughts are unwanted, distressing mental events, words, pictures or urges that arrive uninvited. Often they clash with your values and who you are.

•There are several different types of intrusive thoughts, some of which are related to specific conditions e.g. PTSD or OCD. They have different root causes, which means how you need to handle them varies. Wendy explains the distinctions in the episode.

•Having an intrusive thought does not mean you are going to act on it.

•You need to teach your brain that you are actually not in danger. Wendy shares several ways to notice the thoughts and defuse them.

•Notice sights, sounds, touch, smell, and taste to anchor yourself in the present. This grounding technique can be used anywhere.

•Thought diffusion is naming your intrusive thought and imagining it floating away.

•Slowing your breath to calm your body, calms your mind too.

BEST MOMENTS

“The meaning you give to the thought and what you do next determines whether it fades or sticks.”

“You call it what it is, which is an intrusive thought. By labelling it, it reduces shame, and it just helps you to disengage from the thought.”

“Intrusive thoughts are a brain glitch. They're not a moral verdict.”

“Trying to suppress a thought can make it rebound and feel stronger.”

“With practice, you can change your relationship with them, less wrestling, more wise responding.”

VALUABLE RESOURCES

www.wendycastelino.com

https://www.instagram.com/wendycastelino/

https://www.youtube.com/@wendycastelino798

https://twitter.com/WendyCastelino

ABOUT THE HOST

Wendy Castelino has been working as a psychotherapist for over thirty-five years. As an accredited CBT and EMDR practitioner, she is committed to upholding the rigorous standards required for these accreditations and helping thousands of people reach their full potential.

Wendy currently runs a private practice where her focus is on CBT. Therapy is constantly evolving into developing new techniques, so she studies hard to integrate them into her therapy, to provide a rich and effective experience.

Wendy is aware that working in one-to-one therapy limits the number of people she can see. She has, therefore, created a range of online resources. These resources are designed to be easy to follow and provide clear, step-by-step instructions. This can help the individual to master skills and gain confidence, therefore optimising the therapy sessions. They are also suitable to be used on their own.

Further details are available at: WendyCastelino.com.

This Podcast has been brought to you by Disruptive Media. https://disruptivemedia.co.uk/

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.