• What Would You Say to Your PAST Self?
    Jun 27 2025

    We have been asked this before and probably have thought about it, but STOP. Sit with yourself and go through how you once were. Did you make progress? Gains? Or do you see yourself still making the same mistakes? Check out this episode as I explain how to do it.

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    8 Min.
  • In Order to Have Freedom, We Need Boundaries? WHAT!
    Jun 18 2025

    Quite a paradox here eh? This topic has been coming up a lot especially due to politics, but I don't want to dive into that category. Instead, I broke down in simplest terms why we needs boundaries.

    Let me know what you think!

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    12 Min.
  • Weeding The Garden- Ep. 38
    Jun 10 2025

    It is hard to realize that some friends just don't belong in your life. It isn't personal. It is just that some people are on "different books" than you are. It is not that anyone is better or above others. It is a natural part of life- but it can be very isolating.

    Check this out as I speak about ideas and suggestions.

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    13 Min.
  • I Could Have Had My Revenge...
    Jun 4 2025

    As some of you may know, I had a rough year of teaching this year. My district and principal, did not support me in the slightest. I had evidence through emails and other media of them wrongly doing things. I was on my way to the meeting when I had a thought- "I don't want to become that person."

    Call it the whiner, victim, or vengeful person. That doesn't do anything for me. Instead, I decided I wanted to take the tough path- the high road. In doing so, I opened new doors. Check it out!

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    11 Min.
  • Do I play the game or not? 11th man Theory
    May 24 2025

    In this episode I talk about the 11th man theory- which involves attracting a partner. This email comes to me as striking as I feel that people in my personal life are going through this exact same thing. It is destiny.

    Let me know what you think!

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    11 Min.
  • Stop Putting Things on Pedestals...
    May 11 2025

    It is one of the worst things that we can do to ourselves and others. Putting things above you or you above them can just cause friction. Here are the 5 reasons that I talk about:

    1. Unrealistic Expectations

    2. Dehumanization

    3. Imbalance in Relationships

    4. Stunted Personal Growth

    5. Increased Risk of Betrayal or Resentment

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    9 Min.
  • My 5th Graders are Hurting...
    Apr 24 2025

    I write graduation letters to each of my kids and as I was proofreading them, I started to see a trend. Self-doubt was common through all of them. It is very sad to see. I think that we can recognize this with our own thinking and life. Why are we stuck?

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    11 Min.
  • Important Psychology Things You NEED To Hear
    Apr 17 2025

    I have been studying psychology for a bit now and i am no expert, but I want to share some things with you that I KNOW will transform your relationships. It is simple people. Which is probably why it is so hard or not desirable. Take a listen and tell me what you think-

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    14 Min.