As little girls, we picked petals whispering, “He loves me, he loves me not.”Somewhere along the way, the petals changed — but the guessing didn’t.

Now it sounds like:“He wants me… he wants me not?”

In this episode, we’re unpacking the subtle but powerful difference between being desired and being pursued — because while they can feel similar at first, they are not the same.

Desire can feel exciting. Flattering. Magnetic.Pursuit feels intentional. Steady. Clear.

One gives butterflies and confusion.The other brings peace and direction.

In this episode we talk about:

• Why chemistry alone isn’t proof of intention
• How attention can masquerade as commitment
• The “lazy middle” where desire never turns into pursuit
• Why someone can genuinely like you — and still not choose you
• How to tell if you’re being prioritized or just entertained
• The hard truth about “great connection, bad timing”
• Why yearning and intentional love should go hand in hand

We also share personal reflections on what it feels like to be liked by many… but chosen by none — and why that may actually be a sign of boundaries, standards, and readiness.

Because here’s the truth:

If someone truly wants you, it will be clear.Confusion is not romantic.Breadcrumbs are not pursuit.And love that leads you toward God will never leave you guessing.

Ask yourself:

• Am I being chosen — or just entertained?
• Do his actions bring peace or confusion?
• If nothing changed, would I be okay staying here?

You deserve desire.You deserve yearning.You deserve intentional pursuit.

And above all, you deserve a love that reflects the clarity of God’s love — not one that feels like a guessing game.

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If this episode resonated, share it with a friend who needs the reminder:We stop picking petals when we realize love isn’t supposed to be confusing.