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What if the thing you desire isn’t being withheld…you’re simply being widened to hold it?

In this episode, we explore the difference between chasing more and becoming the You who can actually sustain more.

More visibility.
More love.
More responsibility.
More impact.
More peace.

If you’ve been standing at an edge…
If something feels slightly bigger than your current comfort zone…
This conversation will meet you there.

✨ The Widening Practice

If this episode stirred something in you, I created a guided Widening Practice to support you.

It’s a short (10 min), embodied ritual to help you strengthen your capacity to hold expansion without gripping, bracing, or collapsing.

Just widening.

You can access the Widening Practice here.

Return to it whenever you feel yourself at an edge.

And as always, thank you for being here.

Links & Resources:
→ Generate your Free Human Design Blueprint: https://www.juliebydesign.com/free-human-design-chart
→ Book a 1:1 Human Design reading with me: https://www.juliebydesign.com/ignite-humandesignreading
→ Follow along on IG: @julie.by.design and YT: @Designed_for_More

Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/justin-lee/wanderlust

License code: IW32DDNZ8FH40VWO

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In this episode, I invite you to slow down and create space between an emotional wave and the unconscious urge to fix it — in yourself or in someone else.

So much of our suffering doesn’t come from feeling, but from what we do next. From trying to manage, explain, control, or bypass emotion instead of allowing it to move.

I share lived experiences from partnership and parenting, and offer a simple but powerful inquiry that has changed how I relate to my emotions and the emotions of the people I love: Is this mine?

Is this mine to move, to witness, to hold, or to release?

I also gently acknowledge that we experience emotion differently — including emotionally defined and undefined experiences in Human Design — without turning emotion into something to fix or solve.

If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by feeling, unsure what to do with your own emotions, or caught in patterns of fixing or carrying what isn’t yours, this episode is an invitation back to space, clarity, and embodied trust.

✨ Companion Practice✨

If this inquiry resonates, I’ve also created a guided emotional discernment practice, Is This Mine?, to support you in meeting emotional energy with presence rather than urgency. It’s designed as a simple, repeatable touchstone you can return to — especially in moments when feeling is strong and you want to respond from clarity rather than reflex.

Links & Resources:
→ Generate your Free Human Design Blueprint: https://www.juliebydesign.com/free-human-design-chart
→ Book a 1:1 Human Design reading with me: https://www.juliebydesign.com/ignite-humandesignreading
→ Follow along on IG: @julie.by.design and YT: @Designed_for_More

Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/justin-lee/wanderlust

License code: IW32DDNZ8FH40VWO

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This is the first episode of 2026 — and the opening transmission of Season 2 of Designed for More.

And I’m coming in hot. 🔥

This episode is for the moments when you’re certain, but not yet clear. When you know something has ended… or something new is calling… but you don’t have the plan, the language, or the “how.”

Most of us are taught to treat that space as a problem. As confusion. As something to fix or rush through.

I see it very differently.

In this episode, I invite you into a completely new orientation — one where lack of clarity isn’t a failure, but pure potential. Where the not-knowing isn’t empty, but alive. Where the pressure you feel isn’t something to escape, but something to stay with.

This is an energetic reframe — a place to stand. A field to be in. We’ll explore:

• why certainty almost always comes before clarity
• how demanding clarity can actually narrow possibility
• what it means to stand inside the unknown with curiosity, pleasure, and faith
• and how staying here builds the capacity to receive what you’re moving toward

If you’re in a threshold…
If you’re early…
If you’re standing in the before…

This episode is an invitation to stop bracing — and start expanding.

Welcome to Season 2. Let’s begin!

Links & Resources:
→ Generate your Free Human Design Blueprint: https://www.juliebydesign.com/free-human-design-chart
→ Book a 1:1 Human Design reading with me: https://www.juliebydesign.com/ignite-humandesignreading
→ Follow along on IG: @julie.by.design and YT: @Designed_for_More

Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/justin-lee/wanderlust

License code: IW32DDNZ8FH40VWO