An overview of Dear Nobody, hosted by Sally Yapto— what this podcast is about, why it was created, and what to expect from future episodes. A space for honest reflections, quiet thoughts, and life behind the scenes. A new, exciting chapter is about to be unlocked.

Dear Nobody, stay healthy because everyone is sick, including me. In this monthly check-in, I’m talking about the unique struggle of being sick while living alone in New York. From the exhaustion that makes a simple doctor's visit feel impossible to the absolute lifeline that delivery services provide when you can't cook or clean for yourself, this is an honest look at a very difficult combination.

We also dive into the "why" behind this sudden drop in my health—the exhaustion of saying "yes" to every graduation recital and concert until my immune system simply gave out . I share the books, movies, and video games (specifically a return to Stardew Valley) that are helping me pass the time while I "rot" in bed and recover . This is a reminder to listen to your body, cancel those plans when you need to, and check in on your friends who are navigating their sick days alone.

Dear Nobody, as one zodiac year ends and another begins, there is a distinct feeling of renewal in the air. In this episode, we welcome the Year of the Fire Horse and reflect on the "bad luck" of the passing year—from health struggles to the injuries that impacted my career in piano—and why I am so ready to start fresh. We dive into five staple traditions that define Lunar New Year, from the mandatory haircut to wash away negative energy to the specific rules and joy of receiving red envelopes.

As a Chinese Indonesian living in the States, celebrating these traditions often feels a bit different than it did back home. We talk about the bittersweet reality of missing family reunions due to the changing lunisolar calendar and why it is so important to keep these rituals alive, even when you are far away. Whether it is wearing the brightest red to ward off evil spirits or reminding a friend not to sweep away their good luck, this episode is about finding home in your traditions, no matter where you are in the world.

Dear Nobody, knowing your love language is a great asset in any relationship, but especially for the one you have with yourself.

In this episode, we celebrate the "love month" by unpacking my latest quiz results—and it was a total shocker. I’m diving into why my preference for "Words of Affirmation" dropped from my #1 spot in high school to a mere 3% today, and why I now value Quality Time above everything else, especially while navigating a long-distance relationship.

We also explore how love languages are often culturally inclined, specifically looking at the "Acts of Service" that define many Asian households. From the classic "have you eaten yet?" to the peace offering of a plate of cut fruit, I reflect on the transition from the unspoken love of my upbringing in Indonesia to the more outspoken, physical affection I’ve embraced living in the States. It’s a conversation about breaking the cycle, making your loved ones feel seen, and why implementing all five languages is the secret to a healthy, lasting connection.

Dear Nobody, taking the time to do something is not a waste of time, especially if it's for yourself. It’s called an investment.

I used to be the "rushed kid" who overbooked every second, always running to whatever was next on the schedule. But lately, I’ve realized that peace can be found in the simplest rituals, from the literal circular motions of washing my face to enjoying an undisturbed morning before the world starts.

This episode is a reflection on removing the ticking clock from your head and learning to live in the moment. We talk about finding inspiration in calmness, the beauty of writing letters with intention, and why taking the time to feel good is the ultimate investment in your day. When you stop rushing, everything—including your own well-being—simply comes out nicer.

We often look around for footprints that match our own, and when we don’t find them, we assume we’ve taken a wrong turn.

In this episode, I reflect on the "piano girl" identity I’ve carried my whole life and the quiet bravery it takes to walk away from what you’ve always known. If you feel like the odd one out in the flock, this is for you. Just because your path looks different doesn’t mean it’s wrong.

In this episode of Dear Nobody, I’m doing another Monthly Check-In — sharing honestly what life has looked like lately since the last time we talked.

From traveling to Canada, taking a real break from social media, and starting therapy for the first time, to locking in with piano practice, returning to movement, simplifying routines, and finding small moments of confidence and clarity — this episode is just me checking in.

No advice, no pressure, no theme to follow. Just a calm, honest update about where I am right now.

If you’re in a season of resetting, slowing down, or quietly trying to take better care of yourself, this one’s for you.

New episodes every Thursday.

In this episode of Dear Nobody, I talk about the quiet comfort of going back to things we already know — rewatching movies, replaying songs, revisiting stories — and why that doesn’t mean we’ve stopped growing.

After a season of constantly chasing new experiences, I’ve realized that growth doesn’t always have to feel uncomfortable. Sometimes familiarity is how we recharge, reflect, and understand ourselves better. Rewatching something doesn’t mean there’s nothing new left to learn — it often means we’re ready to receive it differently.

This episode is a gentle reminder that comfort and growth can exist at the same time, and that it’s okay to return to what feels safe while continuing to move forward.