• Love isn’t enough and here’s why
    Oct 27 2025

    We’ve all heard it — “All you need is love.” But is love really enough to sustain a marriage? In this powerful episode, Shirley Uzoigwe unpacks why human love, driven by emotion and convenience, can fade — and why God’s kind of love, Agape, changes everything. Discover how Agape love embodies patience, respect, forgiveness, and commitment, and why it’s the only kind of love strong enough to last a lifetime.

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    6 Min.
  • Before you say I do
    Sep 23 2025

    The wedding lasts a day, but marriage is for a lifetime. In this kickoff to the Marriage Series, Shirley Uzoigwe reflects on her 10 years of marriage and shares the lessons every couple should know before saying “I do.” Discover why love alone isn’t enough, why shared values matter more than shared interests, and how to prepare your heart, character, and faith for a covenant that lasts.

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    8 Min.
  • Dealing with Insecurity
    Sep 11 2025

    Insecurity whispers lies: “You’re not enough. You’re behind. You don’t deserve love.” But God’s truth says otherwise.


    In this closing episode of the Single, Secure & Set Apart series on Dear Mother, Shirley Uzoigwe unpacks how insecurities show up in singleness — from comparison to settling for less — and how to overcome them with faith and confidence. Through scripture, encouragement, and practical steps, you’ll learn to replace lies with truth, step out of comparison, build confidence through action, and surround yourself with voices that remind you of your worth in Christ.


    Your single season is not a reflection of lack — it’s a testimony of God’s intentional love.

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    8 Min.
  • Red Flags
    Sep 8 2025

    Sometimes we want love so badly that we ignore the warning signs. But what you excuse in dating often becomes the very thing that breaks you in marriage.


    In this episode of Dear Mother, Shirley Uzoigwe unpacks the red flags many singles overlook — from boundary issues to inconsistency and disrespect — and explains why it’s so dangerous to minimize them. With biblical wisdom and practical insight, this conversation will help you discern wisely, protect your heart, and trust God for relationships that honor Him.

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    6 Min.
  • Waiting without Wasting
    Sep 4 2025

    Singleness is not a waiting room — it’s a season of purpose. In this episode of Dear Mother, Shirley Uzoigwe unpacks how to embrace the waiting season without wasting it, drawing wisdom from Psalm 27:14. Discover practical ways to grow, serve, and build confidence while trusting God’s perfect timing for your life.

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    6 Min.
  • Wholeness before Love
    Sep 2 2025

    Single, Secure & Set Apart is a faith-based podcast for singles who want to thrive in life and relationships without settling for less than God’s best. Hosted by Shirley Uzoigwe — counselor, speaker, and women’s mentor — this podcast is your safe space for real talk on singleness, purpose, boundaries, healing, and preparing for love the right way.


    Through biblical wisdom, relatable stories, and practical guidance, Shirley helps you embrace your single season with confidence, wholeness, and joy. Whether you’re waiting, dating, or healing, you’ll discover that you are already complete in Christ — and being single is not a curse, but a calling to grow, build, and shine.


    ✨ Episodes drop weekly. Stay tuned, stay encouraged, and stay set apart.

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    6 Min.
  • No More Masks
    Aug 29 2025

    Perfection isn’t the goal — authenticity is. In this episode of Dear Mother, Shirley Uzoigwe unpacks the Samaritan woman’s encounter with Jesus, Paul’s reminder that God’s strength shows up in weakness, and her own story of learning to ask for help. Discover why pretending isolates us, how God uses authenticity for healing, and practical steps to release the pressure of “having it all together.”


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    8 Min.
  • When Motherhood Feels Lonely
    Aug 19 2025

    Motherhood can feel heavy, not because you’re weak, but because you were never meant to do life alone. In this episode of Dear Mother, Shirley Uzoigwe unpacks Hagar’s story, the God who sees us, and the power of community. Discover why connection matters, how God meets you in the unseen moments, and how joining sisterhoods like New Eve can lift your journey.

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    6 Min.