There’s a particular moment many high-functioning people recognise. You’re self-aware, emotionally intelligent, and used to solving problems. You reflect, you communicate, you look for tools, yet the relationship still feels heavy, confusing, or quietly draining. You start wondering what you’re missing, and why it still doesn’t feel settled in your body.

In this episode, Lauren Dry is joined by psychologist, therapist, and author Katarzyna (Kasia) Dodd, creator of the Inner Parent Theory and the INHERENCE® process. Together, they explore covert narcissism through a grounded, nervous-system-informed lens, unpacking how it differs from trauma patterns or relationship dysfunction, and why capable, empathetic people often stay far longer than they meant to.

This is a hopeful, clarifying conversation for anyone trying to work out whether the work is about repair, or about learning to stop carrying what was never yours to fix.

You’ll hear us explore:

1. The difference between covert narcissism and trauma-based relationship patterns
2. Why emotionally intelligent, high-achieving people are especially vulnerable to trauma bonds
3. How intensity, love bombing, and mirroring can bypass discernment
4. What your nervous system can tell you when something isn’t workable
5. How boundaries, self-trust, and inner work create clarity and emotional ease

Resources & Links:

1. 🌐 Learn more about Rise into Regulation™, the skillset for connection, communication, and Nervous System safety in modern marriage.
2. 📱 Follow Lauren on Instagram @lauren_dry

Connect with Katarzyna Dodd:

1. Website: https://katarzynadodd.com/
2. Book: The Chameleon’s Game – https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FZYTZMSM

If something in this episode resonated, please share it with a friend, leave a review, or connect with me on Instagram. I love hearing what lands for you.

Big love,

Lauren x