You’ve said the hard thing. You’ve shared your concerns. You’ve owned your feelings. But the conversation still feels unfinished. Why? Because most of us were never taught the communication skills needed to have “the talk” in a way that truly builds connection instead of distance.

In this third episode of the series, we walk through Step 7 — the next piece that shifts your “we need to talk” moment from correction to collaboration. Instead of demanding change, you’ll learn how to express what you want in a way that invites your teen into partnership. And that’s where grace enters.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• Why traditional confrontation often creates compliance without connection
• How to move from problem-focused to possibility-focused communication
• What it sounds like to express “I want” without control or pressure
• How casting vision builds trust and emotional safety
• A powerful biblical example of appealing instead of commanding

This is where anchored communication becomes transformational.

✨ Ready to begin healing your relationship?

Schedule a Communication Coaching Call with me—we’ll talk through where you’re feeling stuck and what it could look like to finally start creating lasting connection with your teen as you partner with God in the journey.

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You’ve been replaying the conversation in your head for days. You care deeply. You see things that concern you. You want to build trust, not create distance. But every time you try to bring it up, your teen shuts down… gets defensive… or walks away.

And suddenly “we need to talk” turns into conflict instead of connection.

In Part 2 of this 3-part series, I’m giving you the exact words and simple structure to help you build connection, strengthen your communication skills, and speak your heart in a way your teen can actually receive. Because parenting teens isn’t just about what you say — it’s about how you say it.

If you’re a Christian mom who wants practical parenting tips rooted in identity and wisdom — this episode will show you how to move from reaction to intentional conversation starters that create safety instead of shutdown.

• The 3 biggest mistakes moms make when confronting hard topics
• How to use “I see / I hear” instead of leading with judgment
• How to share your thoughts without presenting them as facts
• How to express real emotions in a way that softens your teen instead of triggering them
• A simple conversation structure that helps your teen feel heard, not attacked

And if you're ready for more support and connect with other moms, join our private How to Connect With Your Teen Facebook group. This is where we’re building community, sharing wins, and helping each other navigate hard conversations in a way that builds connection and trust. When you join, you’ll receive a free set of conversation starters you can use right away.

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Every mom knows that moment—you say "we need to talk" and watch your teen immediately shut down, get defensive, or walk away. You enter these conversations with the best intentions, wanting to address their behavior and restore peace. But the way most of us were taught to handle conflict is just a bandaid to a deeper issue, and it ends up creating more distance.

Have you been listening more? Reflecting back what you’re hearing your teen say? Inviting them to share more? Then you’ve been laying a foundation of connection. Now how do you talk so they’ll listen?

Stay tuned. In this first episode of a three-part series on parenting teens we’re talking about how we can build connection through the words we speak even in conflict. Terri will be sharing a game-changing framework that’s transformed how she communicates with her kids.

What You'll Learn:

• The #1 reason your teen shuts down when you try to have hard conversations (and how to fix it)
• How to choose connection as your goal instead of confrontation
• The power of truth-telling with yourself before speaking to your teen
• Why anchoring in Christ's peace is the secret to transforming your communication skills

Before you go, if this episode helped you, I'd be so grateful if you'd leave a review on Apple Podcasts. It takes just a minute and it means the world to me—plus it helps other moms find their way to this community. Thank you for being here.

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Want more support?

🤍Looking for a safe, faith-based community of moms who get it? Come join us inside the How To Connect With Your Teens Facebook group—we’re waiting to welcome you: Connect With Your Teens Facebook Group

💌Become a Connect With Your Teens Insider for weekly parenting tips, encouragement, and support straight to your inbox Weekly Newsletter

✨Instagram: @terricommunicationcoach

✨Contact: support@connectwithyourteens.com

🎧Anchoring Spotify Playlist for encouragement in who you are and how much you're loved: https://bit.ly/AnchoringPlaylist