This a very special episode that I am so excited to present. Amanda Iheme is a psychotherapist based in Lagos, Nigeria that works with clients suffering from depression, anxiety, stress, post-traumatic stress disorder, and existential crisis i.e struggling with the questions of the meaning of life and finding their purpose. I sat down with her to discuss the state of relationships in modern day Nigeria. Her insight was both educational and downright shocking. As a therapist she guides people through some of the most difficult challenges in their lives. It was an honor to gain insight into what on earth the pervailing issues are in the Nigerian community today with regards to dating, marriages, and relationships overall. If you enjoyed this episode please do subscribe and leave a thumbs up. Let me know if you enjoy this type of content! Adamma's Contact Info: https://www.adamma.com/ IG: @AdammaTV TikTok: @adamma.com Amanda's Contact Info: https://www.amandaiheme.com/ IG: @amandaiheme LinkedIN: https://www.linkedin.com/in/amanda-iheme-6a92b150/?originalSubdomain=ng #relationshipadvice #datingadvice #dating #datingredflags #loveadvice #relationship #relationships #africanwoman #nigerian

Happy New Year! Its good to be back! We are starting this new year off with some helpful and informative content to get you started on the right foot with making this year the year that you find the love of your life!

I offer one-on-one consultations now, Check out my website: www.adamma.com

TikTok: @adamma.com

IG: AdammaTV

IG: CandlesandShadows

Have you given up on online dating and dont ever want to go back? Well before you give up completely, listen to this episode where I talk about the top five reasons women like yourself are quitting, and my opinion on why that might just be a very big mistake.

Apparently all of the things that we as women have been told about focusing on getting a good education, securing a good career, and striving for success have done nothing but put us in an impossible situtation when it come to mating. What we value in our personal achievements means absolutley nothing to men in the dating market. To them what matters is youth and beauty. Women on the other hand are simply not willing to settle for men that are less educated and lower earners. To them a man is not worth partnering with if he isnt at least her equal or higher in education and earning power. Is this true? What are your thoughts on that? In this episode I offer my thoughts as well as possible solutions to this mess that modern daters find themselves in!

This episode features a clip from @modernwisdom

Link to the full video is here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ug8IJJd8yH0

Get in touch with me!

candlesandshadowspodcast@gmail.com

IG: Candlesandshadows