This is how i "broke" reason within myself, i called it "breaking my brain" as i am unaware currently of other resources that speak about this idea.

There is only one question, we are all desperately seeking an answer to - without even being aware of the question itself. That is - "what will make me happy?"

We try to reason things, come up with an understanding about why someone did something, especialy if it was hurtful or irrational, why people behave how they do, why things do or don't happen. We use reason to escape the lower emotions, but what if instead of using reason, we could use love to accomplish the same result?

We will always act out, that which we believe about ourselves, what we believe we are, SUBCONSCIOUSLY. How we see ourselves and how we act, are in this loop - a behaviour, produces more reflection of beliefs of others, for you to be the way you are acting (people you are in a relationship with, change their idea of you based on your actions) which then creates more actions on your end, subconsciously. We are running on autopilot a lot of the time, but we can choose this autopilot. We can rewire our brains and mind. By utilizing the idea that we are just an idea, we can consciously choose the idea and wire in, the version of ourselves that we most prefer to be and embody.