Friendship breakups: somehow more devastating than romantic ones, and with none of the sympathy cards. In Episode 2, we unpack platonic divorces, alcoholism, bad judgment, recovery, and how two former best friends managed to survive each other long enough to start a podcast. Poor choices were made.

Show Notes:

Summary

In this episode, Emily and Courtney explore the complexities of platonic friendships, particularly focusing on the challenges and emotional turmoil that can arise when these relationships end. They share personal stories of friendship breakups, the impact of substance abuse on their connections, and the journey of recovery. The conversation delves into the importance of vulnerability, making amends, and the evolving nature of friendships as life circumstances change. They also discuss the healing power of friendship and the significance of reaching out for support during difficult times.

Takeaways

Everybody acts like they know exactly what's going on.

Friendship breakups can be as painful as romantic ones.

Substance abuse can severely impact friendships.

Recovery can change the dynamics of relationships.

Making amends is crucial for personal growth.

Friendships can evolve and change over time.

It's important to communicate openly in friendships.

Vulnerability can strengthen connections with others.

Letting go of past relationships is a part of healing.

New friendships can bring joy and fulfillment.

Sound bites

"I would date me?"

"I would love to date me."

"It'd be nice to hear from people."

Chapters

00:00 Navigating Post-Production Challenges

03:06 The Evolution of Platonic Friendships

06:00 Friendship Breakups: Personal Stories

08:44 Consequences of Substance Abuse on Friendships

11:50 The Impact of Recovery on Relationships

14:48 Friendship Dynamics in Recovery

17:47 The Complexity of Friendship Endings

20:52 Reconnecting After Years Apart

23:39 The Role of Apologies in Friendships

26:47 The Healing Power of Friendship

29:40 Making Amends and Moving Forward

32:44 The Shift in Friendships with Life Changes

35:43 Finding Joy in New Connections

38:11 The Importance of Vulnerability in Friendships

41:01 Letting Go of Past Relationships

43:59 The Journey of Friendship and Support

47:02 Listener Engagement and Sharing Stories

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