Are you dating the same type of person over and over, with the same disappointing results? It’s not just bad luck, it’s a pattern. And you can learn to break it.

I had a chance to sit down with relationship coach, author, and host of The Attracting Lasting Love Podcast, Roy Biancalana. We explored one of the biggest traps in dating and love: repeating the same emotional patterns without even realizing it.

Roy calls it “Relationship Groundhog Day”, where you attract the same kind of partner, fall into all-too-familiar drama and dysfunction, and then wonder why things never seem to change.

But here's the truth: it's not about luck, or the apps, or where you live. It's about your inner shape, and what you’re unconsciously attracting.

Here’s what we unpack in this episode:

• How your childhood plays a big role in your adult dating life.
• Why the Law of Attraction is always working, whether you want it to or not!
• The unconscious reasons you might be drawn to “projects” or emotionally unavailable partners.
• What it actually looks like to do the work (hint: it’s not just journaling).
• How to finally break free of the old patterns and experience the love you truly want.

Roy doesn’t sugarcoat anything, but he does offer hope, clarity, and a path forward. If you’re ready to stop blaming your luck and start shifting your shape, this is the episode to listen to.

Are you a man over 40 ready to stop repeating the same dating patterns?

If Roy’s words hit home, and you’re tired of ghosting, guesswork, and going it alone, it’s time to take a smarter approach.

Join me this June for Master Attraction: The Man’s Guide to Dating After 40, a 3-part live coaching program designed specifically for men who are ready to build real connection with confidence.

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