I've done a handful of videos on Tiktok about how to hack the hinge algorithm and why quantity of matches matters. In a nutshell, the more people that match with you compared to who you match with the more desireable hinge (a computer algorithm) thinks you are. Apologies for my dog being a nutcase in the background, but hopefully this will answer y'alls questions. If you have more send me a DM or Tiktok message. Sorry for the weird paud at 15:21.

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Ghosting. We've all experienced it, and as dating apps continue to lead the way in dating especially following COVID, ghosting has become the norm. Today, I'm joined by my close friend Lara Bahr, as we discuss the ways in which she was ghosted, most recently 4 days before Valentines Day in a soft ghost, and why it's not personal. And though hurtful, we've all experienced it and it's almost never about you.

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Almost one year ago to the day I had an abortion. I knew I had always wanted children, still want children, but made the difficult decision to have an abortion. At the time, I didn't know anyone who had had an abortion and I felt extreme shame. Over time, I came to realize that many of my friends had had an abortion but that no one had spoken to anyone about it. We talk about it being a woman's choice, but the conversation ends there. And by ending the conversation there, we fail to acknowledge the burden of this choice, the pressure, the lack of community to discuss it, and the emotions, hormones, mental and physical experiences. Whatever your decision is, know that you're not alone. I'm not here to give advice, only to share mine and others stories.

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