Your nervous system is sending you a message. Are you listening?

High performers are often the last people to admit they're burning out because they're still getting great performance reviews while their body quietly falls apart.

In this episode, Hannah responds to a listener who has been in back-to-back burnout cycles for two years. She's a project manager at a major financial institution - brilliant at her job, crossing time zones daily, triple-checking everything, answering Slack at 10pm and now dealing with stress-related stomach issues and anxiety more days than not.

She can't quit. She needs the salary. And she's tried therapy, tried saying no, and keeps ending up right back here.

Hannah uses Christina Maslach's clinical framework to diagnose exactly what's happening, and then gives a clear, no-fluff roadmap for getting out of it without torching your career.

In this episode, Hannah covers:

• Christina Maslach's 3-component burnout framework
• Why "greedy jobs" in finance, law, tech, and consulting are burnout factories
• How to separate job demands from personality patterns (and why you need to address both)
• The financial reality of burnout: the 15% salary hit most people don't see coming
• Tactical schedule changes to contain the time zone problem
• Why therapy alone isn't enough and what coaching does differently
• When to consider a lateral role change (and what you actually trade away)
• How to choose between career acceleration and your health

The truth: You can have a thriving career and not be sick. But you can't have both at the same time if you keep doing the same things.

Timestamps:

02:30 — Christina Maslach's 3-component burnout framework explained
04:00 — Diagnosing the listener: Does she qualify? (All three boxes ticked)
05:00 — "Greedy jobs" why finance, law, and tech normalise burnout
06:15 — Separating job demands from personality patterns: time zones vs. perfectionism
07:30 — The real question: is your priority health or the mortgage?
08:30 — The financial cost of burnout: the 15% salary hit nobody warns you about
09:15 — Tactical fix #1: condensing time zone work to specific days
10:00 — Tactical fix #2: negotiating with your manager + using health as a lever
11:00 — Why therapy alone isn't enough and what coaching does differently
12:30 — Considering a lateral role change: the trade-offs, honestly
13:45 — Career acceleration vs. health: you can't have both right now
14:30 — "You can have a thriving career and not be sick", Hannah's closing belief

Resources/ Links:

Christina Maslach is best known as one of the pioneering researchers on job burnout and the author of the Maslach Burnout Inventory (MBI), the most widely used research measure in the burnout field.

https://maslach.socialpsychology.org/files

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Feeling overwhelmed? It's probably not what you think it is.

In this raw, unscripted solo episode, Hannah shares what came out of her most recent therapy session - a realisation that stopped her in her tracks.

She'd been feeling overwhelmed. Shutting down. Going full "sloth monster." And when she traced it back to the source, it wasn't burnout. It wasn't doing too much. It was the complete opposite - it was not making decisions.

If you're in a season of growth where everything feels uncertain, you have ten browser tabs open in your brain, and you can't seem to pick a direction. This episode is going to land hard.

The bottom line: Overwhelm isn't always about doing too much. Sometimes it's about deciding too little. Pick a direction, any direction and let the data tell you what to do next.

📩 DM Hannah if this hit home, she wants to hear from you.

Key Takeaways:

- Overwhelm is often indecision in disguise.
- Know your stress response.
- Open decisions are open wounds.
- Indecision has a massive opportunity cost.
- More research = more paralysis
- Ring-fence big decisions with a deadline.
- Cap your research time
- Execute to get data — not to get it perfect.
- Perfectionism is a momentum killer.
- You're better at executing than you think.

Timestamps:

02:00 — The window of tolerance: hyper-arousal vs. hypo-arousal explained
02:45 — Meet the "sloth monster": Hannah's hypo-arousal shutdown mode
03:30 — The root cause: overwhelm = indecision during hypergrowth
04:15 — Why being good at executing directives doesn't translate to open-ended decisions
04:45 — The "open tabs" problem and the opportunity cost of not deciding
05:30 — Real examples: evergreen vs. launch, program naming dilemmas
06:15 — The 3-step decision-making framework: ring-fence, cap research, execute
07:00 — Why more research leads to more paralysis (not better decisions)
07:45 — Perfectionism + the friend who joined the program for the same reason
08:15 — When big life decisions ARE worth more time (and when they're not)

#decisionmaking #overwhelmed #indecision #createyourownfuture #decisionsmatter #lifecoachforwomen #lifeworkbalance

You can be powerful. You can be liked. They're not opposites.

If you've just stepped into a bigger leadership role and you're about to have the hardest conversations of your career, this one's for you.

In this Hannah Hotline episode, Hannah coaches a listener who has rocketed from career-changer to C-suite executive in just three years, now managing nearly 30 people and reporting directly to the CEO. A major restructure is coming. Roles are being changed. A senior colleague is now reporting to her. And she has to deliver "you're in or you're out" messages to people she genuinely likes.

She feels like a fraud. Hannah's response? You're confusing people-pleasing with people-caring and they are not the same thing.

In this episode, Hannah covers:
- The critical difference between people-pleasing and people-caring (and why it changes everything)
- Why people-pleasing is actually protecting you, not them
- How to reframe "in or out" messages as giving people agency, not taking it away
- What to actually say to a senior colleague who now reports to you
- Why "clarity is the kindest thing you can do" as a leader
- The identity shift required to step into real leadership authority
- How to increase your tolerance for discomfort, without losing your character
- Situational leadership and nonviolent communication as practical tools

The truth about people-pleasing in leadership: avoiding hard conversations doesn't protect your team. It protects you and it costs your team clarity, direction, and respect.

Got a question for Hannah? Email hello@hannahkissel.com

Timestamps:

02:30 — First reframe: you can be powerful and likable, they're not opposites
04:00 — People-pleasing vs. people-caring: the distinction that changes everything
05:30 — "Clarity is the kindest thing you can do", why avoiding hard conversations hurts people
07:00 — Reframing "in or out" messages: giving people agency, not taking it away
08:15 — How to handle the senior colleague who now reports to you
09:45 — Using your C-suite influence to make the restructure more employee-friendly
11:00 — The identity shift: increasing your tolerance for discomfort
12:30 — Building your support system + tools (nonviolent communication, situational leadership)
13:30 — Send Hannah your questions + wrap up

#peoplepleasingrecovery #clarityiskey #careertransitions #workplaceadvice #highperformer