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Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris

Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris

Von: Adam Alvarez; Pris Alvarez
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 Welcome to the wild, honest, and hilarious world of Beyond Monogamy—a podcast where longtime lifestyle couple Adam & Pris spill the tea (and sometimes the lube) on all things ethical non-monogamy. From hotwife adventures and swinger fails to polyamorous growing pains and everything in between, no topic is too taboo and no story is off-limits. Whether you're a seasoned swinger, lifestyle-curious, or just here for the juicy stories—you're in the right bed… we mean, place. Expect real talk, lots of laughs, and candid conversations about sex, relationships, parenting, judgment, and finding connection beyond traditional monogamy. 🛏️ New episodes drop every Sunday and Wednesday. 🎥 Now with video! Watch on YouTube or visit www.beyond-monogamy.com2025 Beziehungen Hygiene & gesundes Leben Sozialwissenschaften
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  • QUICKIE: Lifestyle Stereotypes — Truth or Total BS?

    QUICKIE: Lifestyle Stereotypes — Truth or Total BS?
    Aug 20 2025
    In this week’s Beyond Monogamy QUICKIE, Adam & Pris break down the most popular swinger stereotypes — testing each one to see if it’s truth… or total BS. From pineapples and hot tubs to midlife crises and “porno-sized Johnsons,” nothing was off-limits in this hilarious 30-minute myth-busting ride. 🕒 Episode Timeline Highlights [00:02] – The “All Swingers Are Hot” Myth Adam & Pris admit they once thought swingers were all gym-bodied models. Reality check? Swingers come in all shapes, sizes, and vibes. Ads and social media only show the “highlight reel.” Real life = regular people who just happen to be into consensual non-monogamy. [00:05] – Swinging = Cheating? Nope! Swinging is built on consent and honesty, not sneaking around. Pris shares how people back home used to tell her to “just cheat” instead of being openly poly. Spoiler: that’s not how ethical non-monogamy works. [00:07] – Orgies Everywhere? The stereotype says swinger parties are non-stop sex. Reality? Many parties are more drinks than dicks. Some are social, some are DTF, but not every event turns into a late-night orgy fest. [00:09] – Jealousy Doesn’t Exist? Pris calls herself “territorial, not jealous,” while Adam confesses he gets a little turned on when other people want Pris. Bottom line: jealousy happens — it’s human nature. Communication keeps it from blowing up. [00:11] – Only People in Their 20s Do It Big myth. Most community members are in their 30s, 40s, and 50s. Twentysomethings may play on apps or college parties, but real community and connection usually grow later. [00:14] – Midlife Crisis Stereotype Swinging isn’t just about “key parties for suburban boomers.” Sure, some discover it later in life, but Adam & Pris argue it’s more about freedom, empty-nest energy, and exploring fantasies — not a “crisis.” [00:17] – The Pineapple Obsession Ah yes, the iconic upside-down pineapple. It is everywhere, but not everyone rocking one is in the lifestyle. Some folks are just really into tropical fruit or… hospitality tattoos. [00:20] – Always DTF, All the Time? Nope. Swingers aren’t horny robots. Most prefer conversation, connection, and consent over “let’s bang strangers immediately.” [00:22] – No Boundaries? Swingers may actually have more boundaries than the “vanilla” world. From soft swap rules to consent culture, boundaries are what make it work. [00:23] – It’s Just White, Middle-Class Couples False. Adam & Pris (both Hispanic) point out how diverse lifestyle communities really are. [00:25] – Everyone Is Bi Not true. Some are, some aren’t. And no, two men and a woman in a threesome doesn’t automatically mean the guys are gay. Inside the lifestyle, the “all women are bi” stereotype is also exaggerated. [00:27] – Swingers Only Club & Party Sure, some love it, but many are just as happy brunching, binging Netflix, or chilling with lifestyle friends. Not every weekend ends with strobe lights and a playroom. [00:28-30] – Funny Extras & Inside Jokes All swingers own hot tubs (if only). Black silicone wedding bands = swinger “flag” (or maybe just gym wear). All men are porn-star sized (false). Eye contact = “I want you” (false, sometimes you’re just listening). “Practice makes perfect” → Maybe swingers are better lovers? Adam & Pris lean toward yes. 😂 Examples of Stereotypes From Outside the Lifestyle: Swinging = cheating. Everyone’s bisexual. Swingers are all white, rich, and midlife crisis couples. Every party = giant orgy. From Inside the Lifestyle: The “real unicorn” is a straight woman. Black wedding rings, pineapple tattoos, or hot tubs = guaranteed swinger. All lifestyle men have mustaches (really?). “Practice makes perfect” — swingers are assumed to be expert lovers. 🔑 Takeaway Most stereotypes are laughable at best and damaging at worst. The lifestyle is as diverse and unique as the people in it. It’s not about fitting a pineapple-shaped mold — it’s about honesty, fun, and writing your own story. 📢 Get Connected Catch Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris every Thursday at 1 PM and 6 PM CST on FullSwapRadio.com. 👉 Website: www.beyond-monogamy.com 👉 Facebook: facebook.com/beyondmonogamy4u 👉 Instagram: @beyond_monogamy_4u 👉 TikTok: @beyond.monogamy (Pris) & @adam&beyond (Adam) 👉 X (Twitter): @beyomono 👉 Reddit: r/beyond_monogamy 👉 YouTube: @BeyondMonogamywithAdamPris 💬 Like, share, subscribe, and drop us a review anywhere you listen — or leave us a voice message straight from our website. Your support helps us keep busting myths (and maybe a few bedsprings along the way).
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    33 Min.
  • When the Big "O" Doesn’t Happen: How It Feels on Both Sides

    When the Big "O" Doesn’t Happen: How It Feels on Both Sides
    Aug 17 2025
    What happens when the orgasm just… doesn’t show up? In this week’s episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we dive deep into the world of orgasms (and the lack thereof). From the awkwardness of faking it, to the insecurities people face when their partner can’t “finish,” to the myths surrounding male and female orgasms — nothing is off limits. Adam and Pris get personal, funny, and brutally honest about their own experiences in the swinging lifestyle and ethical non-monogamy. They share stories of performance anxiety, distractions, delayed ejaculation, women who take a long time (or never) to orgasm, and the mental tricks that can get in the way of the Big O. Plus, they bust through common myths like: “Men always finish.” “If he doesn’t orgasm, he’s not attracted to me.” “Women orgasm easily during penetration.” “Toys mean I’m not enough.” “If it didn’t end in orgasm, it was bad sex.” This episode isn’t just about sex mechanics — it’s about shifting perspective, communication, and celebrating pleasure in all its forms (with or without the finish line). Episode Highlights with Timestamps [00:02:00] Adam shares a recent play experience where a partner admitted she rarely orgasms — and why communication made the moment better. [00:04:00] Pris reveals how few partners have been able to make her orgasm, and the shift she made in openly sharing what works for her. [00:07:00] The story of a “gold star lesbian” partner and Pris faking it… until she didn’t. [00:09:30] Adam admits how distractions, stress, and even clocks in the room have blocked his ability to finish. [00:12:00] The impact of alcohol, drugs, and overstimulation on men’s ability to orgasm. [00:16:00] Myth-busting: “Men always finish” and the pressure behind it. [00:18:00] Myth-busting: “If he doesn’t finish, he’s not attracted to me.” [00:23:00] Adam’s story about lasting for hours at 19 and how cultural myths about “lasting forever” shaped his views. [00:26:00] Myth-busting: “If she doesn’t orgasm, I failed as a lover.” [00:28:00] Discussion on toys: helpers, not competitors. [00:34:00] Squirting ≠ orgasm — important distinctions. [00:38:00] Adam on the insecurity of thinking women only wanted Pris, not him. [00:45:00] Locker room talk, cultural machismo, and how bragging about “orgasms achieved” feeds insecurity. [00:50:00] The psychology of orgasm, fantasies, and why some men come quicker with new partners. [00:53:00] How shifting perception from “must orgasm” to “enjoy the ride” changes everything. [00:57:00] Call to listeners: Share your “when the Big O didn’t happen” stories for a future QUICKIE episode. Show Notes Welcome to another wild and real conversation on Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris. In this episode, When the Big O Doesn’t Happen, we tackle one of the most common, yet rarely talked about, experiences in sex: what happens when someone can’t finish. 👉 We discuss performance anxiety, pressure, myths, insecurities, swinging lifestyle dynamics, and how to shift focus toward connection and pleasure instead of just chasing orgasms. 👉 Whether you’re exploring the swinger lifestyle, polyamory, or ethical non-monogamy, this episode offers laughs, relatability, and some practical reassurance that you’re not alone when the Big O doesn’t make an appearance. Where to Listen & Connect ✨ Website: www.beyond-monogamy.com ✨ Full Swap Radio: Catch us streaming every Thursday at 2PM & 7PM CST on FullSwapRadio.com ✨ YouTube: @BeyondMonogamywithAdamPris — don’t forget to subscribe (help Adam get his plaque 👀) ✨ Facebook: Beyond Monogamy 4U ✨ Instagram: @beyond_monogamy_4u ✨ X (Twitter): @beyomono ✨ TikTok: @beyond.monogamy (Pris) | @adam&beyond (Adam) ✨ Reddit: r/beyond_monogamy Support the Show 💬 We want your stories! Have you ever been in a situation where the Big O didn’t happen? Send us your story at www.beyond-monogamy.com or leave us a voicemail. We may feature you in a future QUICKIE episode! 👍 Like, 💌 Share, ✅ Subscribe, and ⭐️ Leave us a review on your favorite platform or directly on our website. Reviews help more people discover the show and keep the conversations flowing.
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    1 Std. und 1 Min.
  • QUICKIE: Too Much Sex? Or Not Enough?

    QUICKIE: Too Much Sex? Or Not Enough?
    Aug 13 2025

    In this steamy QUICKIE episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, your favorite lifestyle couple takes a cheeky, unfiltered dive into the question: How much sex is too much… and how little is too little? Adam and Pris pull back the sheets (literally) to share their own hyper-sexual reality — averaging multiple sessions a day — and compare it to national averages showing most couples only get intimate once or twice a week.

    This fun, candid conversation covers mismatched libidos, how to keep sex exciting after years together, the realities of high sex drive relationships, and how lifestyle couples often break the mold. They discuss “wrong” times for sex, how menopause can shift desire, and even the role of toys, lube, and experimentation in keeping the spark alive. Adam and Pris also touch on the emotional side — insecurities, communication, and what to do when one partner just isn’t in the mood.

    Whether you’re having daily “bang-a-thons,” enjoying slow-burn intimacy, or wondering how to spice things up, this episode blends humor, honesty, and practical advice for couples in and out of the lifestyle. It’s equal parts sexy banter, relationship insight, and playful oversharing — just the way Beyond Monogamy listeners love it.

    Show Notes:

    Topics Covered:

    • Adam & Pris’s personal sex frequency (spoiler: it’s a lot) vs. national averages

    • Why lifestyle couples may naturally have more sex than vanilla couples

    • “Wrong” times for sex (and why Adam thinks they don’t exist)

    • How high libidos can be both a blessing and a scheduling challenge

    • The effect of menopause, stress, and life changes on sexual desire

    • Strategies for keeping sex fresh after years together — toys, positions, new experiences

    • Navigating mismatched sex drives and maintaining intimacy

    • The emotional side: insecurity, compersion, and lifestyle dynamics

    • Pills, patches, and creams — medications that can help with libido issues

    • Fun personal stories, including why ribs and milkshakes once led to truck hookups

    Listen on Our Website: www.beyond-monogamy.com

    Catch Us on Full Swap Radio: Streaming every Thursday at 2PM & 7PM EST alongside other amazing lifestyle podcasts — FullSwapRadio.com

    Follow & Connect with Us:

    • Facebook: facebook.com/beyondmonogamy4u

    • Instagram: @beyond_monogamy_4u

    • X / Twitter: @beyomono

    • TikTok: @beyond.monogamy (Pris) | @adam&beyond (Adam)

    • Reddit: r/beyond_monogamy

    • YouTube: @BeyondMonogamywithAdamPris

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    If you love what we do, help us grow! Like, share, subscribe, and leave us a review on your favorite podcast platform. We read every single one (usually while naked), and your feedback helps us reach more sexy, open-minded listeners like you.
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    32 Min.
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