In this episode Dr. Betters answers the question, "I am getting married in a month, and I just found out my fiancée was sexually abused as a child. Knowing this, how should I prepare for my wedding night and our first year of marriage?"

Dr. Chuck Betters, drawing from his own faith struggles—especially the tragic loss of his sixteen-year-old son, Mark—has assisted countless individuals facing similar challenges over more than five decades of ministry. He finds hope in the belief that God is sovereign and can be trusted.

In a world filled with brokenness and despair, "Ask Dr. Betters" is a unique video forum where Dr. Betters and his guests provide clear, biblical answers to life’s pressing questions about suffering and living by faith in a broken world.

Do you have a question you need answered? Leave your questions in the comments of any video. We are excited to hear from you. Thank you for your support, and welcome to the MARKINC Family!

Ask Dr. Betters is produced by MARKINC Ministries and is not intended to replace professional counseling; rather, it aims to highlight Biblical principles related to the questions being asked. If you need professional help, we encourage you to seek it. Qualified counselors are available to assist you at Anchored Virtual Biblical Counseling. Please see the links below for more information about Anchored Virtual and the other free resources offered by MARKINC Ministries.

We need your support to ensure that MARKINC can continue providing these valuable free resources and keep Ask Dr. Betters accessible. Please consider donating to MARKINC Ministries to help us offer hope to those in need. You can safely donate through our website, mobile app, or by using this link: https://markinc.org/donate/. Thank you for your generosity!

To discover more episodes of Ask Dr. Betters and explore everything MARKINC has to offer, visit helpandhopenow.org. You can also download the FREE mobile app, Help and Hope, by following this link - https://subsplash.com/markincministries/app - or by searching for Help and Hope in your mobile app store.

Anchored Virtual Biblical Counseling is an online counseling service that seeks to practically help hurting people by anchoring their hope in Jesus and gaining a better understanding of His promises. They offer reputable, affordable, Biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing hard times, so they are better equipped to persevere by faith. https://anchoredvirtual.com/​

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In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "Hello, I am a college-age female, and I feel that God has left me. I feel like I always tried to follow his path even when none of my family went to church. I felt all my life that God was telling me to go one direction in ministry and then, when it was time to apply for schools and I told people, they told me that was not my calling. I feel like I don't have direction anymore and no one cares about me. I feel like God has put me here all alone, and every time I feel very connected to God and that I am following the right path and feel at peace something happens or I'm told that I’m not good enough. I don't know if I even believe in God anymore. I have been sexually, physically, and emotionally abused all of my life and I now suffer from PTSD, depression, and anxiety. It's hard even at 20-some to leave such a toxic environment because I don't feel connected or have any support. I've been to Reach and the young adult group, but I don't feel like I belong, and no one would like me anyway. There are always so many people, and I will never be the popular one or the "chosen" one or the one who they are happy to see, so I have stopped going to church and everything all together, but I now feel even worse. I am always the outcast and people don't like me anyway. I don't know what to do. I don't know why I am so unclean, messed up, and unworthy. I don't know why God hates me so much and why no one really cares. I don't know what I should do. Does God even love me anymore or have a purpose for my life?"

Dr. Chuck Betters, drawing from his own faith struggles—especially the tragic loss of his sixteen-year-old son, Mark—has assisted countless individuals facing similar challenges over more than five decades of ministry. He finds hope in the belief that God is sovereign and can be trusted.

In a world filled with brokenness and despair, "Ask Dr. Betters" is a unique video forum where Dr. Betters and his guests provide clear, biblical answers to life’s pressing questions about suffering and living by faith in a broken world.

Do you have a question you need answered? Leave your questions in the comments of any video. We are excited to hear from you. Thank you for your support, and welcome to the MARKINC Family!

Ask Dr. Betters is produced by MARKINC Ministries and is not intended to replace professional counseling; rather, it aims to highlight Biblical principles related to the questions being asked. If you need professional help, we encourage you to seek it. Qualified counselors are available to assist you at Anchored Virtual Biblical Counseling. Please see the links below for more information about Anchored Virtual and the other free resources offered by MARKINC Ministries.

We need your support to ensure that MARKINC can continue providing these valuable free resources and keep Ask Dr. Betters accessible. Please consider donating to MARKINC Ministries to help us offer hope to those in need. You can safely donate through our website, mobile app, or by using this link: https://markinc.org/donate/. Thank you for your generosity!

To discover more episodes of Ask Dr. Betters and explore everything MARKINC has to offer, visit helpandhopenow.org. You can also download the FREE mobile app, Help and Hope, by following this link - https://subsplash.com/markincministries/app - or by searching for Help and Hope in your mobile app store.

Anchored Virtual Biblical Counseling is an online counseling service that seeks to practically help hurting people by anchoring their hope in Jesus and gaining a better understanding of His promises. They offer reputable, affordable, Biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing hard times, so

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In this episode, Dr. Betters answers the question, "My only question is this, and no one has been able to answer it so far. If God knew there would be murderers and people tortured and blown up and raped, etc., why would he create this world even if it’s only temporary? I can’t believe that God would allow that kind of suffering to exist, knowing beforehand it would. You may say it’s free will and we chose it. That well may be true, but he’s omniscient and knew that murderers and torture would exist. Why would you even create that kind of world? What’s the purpose? Not for his own pleasure or glory. He doesn’t need that. He doesn’t need your praise and worship. I understand this world is just a blink of an eye, and our redemption and heaven await us. But think about it, why would any omniscient god create any chance of evil in his world? I understand he wanted free will for us to choose him and love him, not like robots. I get it, but if he knew there was a chance of murderers, torture, and children starving to death and diseases, even though it’s a small blink of an eye compared to eternity, it’s still horrible for us here on earth while we exist. I can’t get over the fact that he would ever even consider that kind of world to create. Please help me understand."

Dr. Chuck Betters, drawing from his own faith struggles—especially the tragic loss of his sixteen-year-old son, Mark—has assisted countless individuals facing similar challenges over more than five decades of ministry. He finds hope in the belief that God is sovereign and can be trusted.

In a world filled with brokenness and despair, "Ask Dr. Betters" is a unique video forum where Dr. Betters and his guests provide clear, biblical answers to life’s pressing questions about suffering and living by faith in a broken world.

Do you have a question you need answered? Leave your questions in the comments of any video. We are excited to hear from you. Thank you for your support, and welcome to the MARKINC Family!

Ask Dr. Betters is produced by MARKINC Ministries and is not intended to replace professional counseling; rather, it aims to highlight Biblical principles related to the questions being asked. If you need professional help, we encourage you to seek it. Qualified counselors are available to assist you at Anchored Virtual Biblical Counseling. Please see the links below for more information about Anchored Virtual and the other free resources offered by MARKINC Ministries.

We need your support to ensure that MARKINC can continue providing these valuable free resources and keep Ask Dr. Betters accessible. Please consider donating to MARKINC Ministries to help us offer hope to those in need. You can safely donate through our website, mobile app, or by using this link: https://markinc.org/donate/. Thank you for your generosity!

To discover more episodes of Ask Dr. Betters and explore everything MARKINC has to offer, visit helpandhopenow.org. You can also download the FREE mobile app, Help and Hope, by following this link - https://subsplash.com/markincministries/app - or by searching for Help and Hope in your mobile app store.

Anchored Virtual Biblical Counseling is an online counseling service that seeks to practically help hurting people by anchoring their hope in Jesus and gaining a better understanding of His promises. They offer reputable, affordable, Biblical counsel to those suffering or experiencing hard times, so they are better equipped to persevere by faith. https://anchoredvirtual.com/​

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