What Is A Cortisol Junkie?

Calm can feel threatening when your nervous system has learned that being “on” is the safest place to live. We sit down with licensed clinical social worker Anne Chester to unpack why cortisol and adrenaline become fuel for everyday life, how over functioning gets praised while burnout grows in the shadows, and what it takes to retrain a body that forgot how to rest. From holiday overstimulation to the quiet that follows, we trace the arc from survival mode to sustainable calm without shaming productivity or pathologizing grit.

We explore the science behind fight or flight hormones and the subtle ways stress hides in excellence, perfectionism, and being “the reliable one.” Anne breaks down ACE scores (adverse childhood experiences) as a framework for understanding chronic activation, clarifying that it’s not about ranking trauma but about how long your system stayed on alert. You’ll hear the inner questions that keep people revved—Who needs me? What am I missing?—and why vacations often fail when your body hasn’t learned that rest is safe. We dig into cravings, restless sleep, and the discomfort of silence, then map the small practices that build tolerance for calm.

Expect concrete, compassionate steps to rewire your baseline: name emotional fatigue, let grief belong without comparison, set boundaries you can keep, and practice short, non-performance moments that teach safety to your nervous system. Anne offers a grounded path from constant scanning to grounded presence, reminding us that you’re not broken—you adapted. With steady support, your body can learn a new way to be okay without the constant push.

If this conversation resonates, share it with someone who needs permission to slow down, and leave a review to help others find the show. Live in Texas and want to talk it through? Book a free 15-minute consultation at Anchester.com or call 817-939-7884.

To learn more about Anne Chester™, LCSW Counseling visit:
https://www.AnneChester.com
Anne Chester™, LCSW Counseling
122 River Oaks Drive
Southlake, Texas 76092
817-939-7884

What Is The 5 Minute Resolution?

Resolutions promise a clean slate, but why do so many leave us exhausted and ashamed by mid-January? We take a scalpel to the 5-minute fix and reveal the deeper need underneath most “new year, new me” goals: a longing for connection, ease, and a life that fits who we are. Instead of chasing image-based metrics—a catalog-perfect home, a flawless body, a zeroed-out inbox—we show how to build steady change through values that match your real season.

Anne Chester, licensed clinical social worker, shares how performative goals trigger anxiety loops, especially when they depend on other people behaving perfectly. She contrasts the fantasy of total organization with the reality of family life, pets that shed, and the simple joy of a movie night without mental math about cleanup. We unpack how social media’s filtered standards distort expectations and why tethering self-worth to a mirage keeps peace out of reach. Then we pivot to what actually works: micro-resolutions anchored in authenticity, connection, and practical systems.

You’ll learn how ten focused minutes can change the tone of a day—phone-free dinners that protect conversation, a shared calendar that prevents chaos, and small routines that keep laundry from swallowing your living room. We also outline therapy-informed tools—journaling prompts, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy—to help you identify core values and retire the tired scripts that say you’re not enough. The result isn’t a makeover; it’s alignment. Measure success by presence over pressure and contact over comparison.

If this resonated, follow the show, share it with a friend who hates resolutions, and leave a quick review. Live in Texas and want support? Book a free 15-minute consultation online or call 817-939-7884. Let’s start the conversation because it doesn’t have to be that way.

To learn more about Anne Chester™, LCSW Counseling visit:
https://www.AnneChester.com
Anne Chester™, LCSW Counseling
122 River Oaks Drive
Southlake, Texas 76092
817-939-7884

How To Manage Holiday Blues?

Holiday lights can be dazzling and heavy at the same time. We talk honestly about why the season often intensifies anxiety, grief, and loneliness—and how to trade perfection for presence without giving up what makes this time meaningful. Anne Chester, LCSW, shares grounded, compassionate tools drawn from years of therapy work with women navigating midlife, trauma, and life transitions across Texas.

We unpack the hidden drivers of holiday distress: “should statements” that set unreachable standards, idealized expectations that depend on other people’s cooperation, and the shame spiral that follows when reality doesn’t comply. Anne explains the anxiety loop in plain language and offers a step-by-step journaling practice to separate your desires from others’ demands. You’ll hear practical scripts for tense conversations—especially around politics or unsolicited advice—plus simple exit strategies that protect your energy without starting a fight.

Grief gets room at the table too. From infertility heartache to missing a beloved grandparent, we explore rituals that honor loss and reconnect you to purpose: lighting a candle, using a family heirloom, volunteering, or writing a brief tribute. We also look at perfectionism’s sneaky role in “manufacturing memories” and how to pivot toward authentic connection with small, sensory moments—warm mugs, shared laughter, and undistracted eye contact. If you’ve been craving a holiday that feels real instead of photo-ready, this conversation offers a calm, manageable path.

If the themes here resonate and you’re in Texas, book a free 15-minute consultation with Anne. Follow the show, share this episode with someone who needs it, and leave a quick review to help others find these tools. May you see with mercy, respond with wisdom, and stay grounded in peace.

To learn more about Anne Chester™, LCSW Counseling visit:
https://www.AnneChester.com
Anne Chester™, LCSW Counseling
122 River Oaks Drive
Southlake, Texas 76092
817-939-7884