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Aging ain't for Sissies

Aging ain't for Sissies

Von: Marcy Backhus
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Aging isn't easy. My name is Marcy Backhus and I am your host! Make sure your complete well-being is handled with a community and information that can make it easier and FUN. Aging needs humor, which you can find in the "Aging ain't for Sissies" Podcast, along with informational guests that give us the information we need.

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  • Why Rest Alone Won’t Cure Your Exhaustion
    Jan 23 2026

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    The kind of tired that lingers after a nap has nothing to do with willpower. We pull back the curtain on bone-deep exhaustion—the mental load, relentless micro-decisions, and invisible emotional labor that compound over years—and show how it steals energy even on quiet days. From road-trip reflections to birthday milestones and the real logistics of keeping life running, we connect the dots between responsibility, capacity, and why the smallest question can feel like a breaking point.

    We unpack decision fatigue with real examples: the constant “what’s for dinner,” the health appointments you juggle, the family calendars you manage, and the diplomacy you perform to keep peace. Then we name the emotional labor many women carry—remembering, reminding, smoothing, holding space—and how that ongoing vigilance wears down attention and patience. You’ll hear practical, compassionate ways to create relief, not just rest: fewer obligations, firmer boundaries, less explaining, and honest limits that match your current season.

    Expect clear, workable ideas you can put to use today. Learn how to offload choices with simple systems, embrace no as a complete sentence, and choose ease without guilt through routines, defaults, and meal planning. We reframe rest as fuel rather than a prize, and we invite you to spend energy only where it truly matters. You’re not broken, lazy, or failing—you’re human, and you’ve carried a lot. If you’re ready to feel lighter and protect your bandwidth, press play, take what you need, and try one small change this week. If this conversation helps, share it with a friend and leave a quick review so others can find it too.

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    17 Min.
  • Slow Down To Live More
    Jan 16 2026

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    What if the fastest way to feel better isn’t faster at all? On a solo drive from Chicago to Flagstaff along Route 66, I kept catching myself trying to beat the ETA, race the clock, and turn every mile into a metric. Then the open road—and a few ridiculous roadside stops—reminded me: you don’t get extra points for arriving early, you just get more tired. So I tested a different rule set. Stop when hungry. Rest when tired. Choose the safer workout. Take the scenic detour for a laugh. The world kept spinning, and my shoulders finally dropped.

    We dig into why slowing down feels suspicious, especially for those of us raised to earn rest only when everything is done. I talk about urgency as a default setting, how busyness gets mistaken for worth, and the quiet fear that pausing means falling behind. A slow-rolling house on the highway becomes the metaphor: it kept moving while I paused, and yet I passed it again—proof that pace is less linear than we think. We walk through practical, low-drama strategies: leave earlier, say “let me think,” take mental health days without backfilling them, and let silence do its work in conversation. Your calm does not need to match someone else’s chaos, and someone else’s poor planning doesn’t become your emergency.

    There’s also the deeper payoff: discernment. With age comes the ability to choose fewer, better plans, protect energy, and notice who and what actually feels good. I share the travel choices that prioritized safety over ego, the inner voice that got louder when the schedule got lighter, and the reminder that what’s meant for you won’t pass you by because you paused. Speed is optional. Presence is not. If you’re craving permission to breathe, this one’s your green light.

    If this resonated, subscribe, share it with a friend who’s always “on,” and leave a quick review. What’s one thing you’ll do slower this week?

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    25 Min.
  • Choosing More Of What Matters
    Jan 9 2026

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    Ever feel the pressure to reinvent yourself by February? We’re choosing a better path. After a year marked by cancer and stacked medical emergencies, I’m done proving and ready to design a year that actually fits: slower travel, calmer mornings, kinder boundaries, and choices that honor energy, not ego. This isn’t about becoming someone new; it’s about becoming more of who you already are—on purpose.

    We start with ease as a strategy. I’m taking a six-week road trip and breaking it into humane days so I arrive well, not wrecked. That mindset spills into work, home, and service. I share how we built systems for a record stewardship campaign at our cathedral and why I’m handing leadership on so others can thrive. Ease isn’t slacking; it’s intentional design that keeps the most important things front and center.

    Peace gets a real definition here: fewer circular fights, slower replies, and acceptance of people as they are—especially the ones we love. We talk about joy shifting from big, performative moments to small, repeatable pleasures you can count on: a quiet coffee, a comfortable bed, a text from someone who knows your heart. Then we get honest about choosing yourself without guilt, receiving help when you need it, and learning what enough finally feels like—enough plans, enough stuff, enough proving.

    If you’re craving a good year instead of a big year, you’re in the right place. Letting go created room; choosing wisely fills it with ease, peace, joy, and contentment you can sustain. Press play, take what serves you, and tell us: what are you choosing more of this year? Subscribe, share with a friend who needs a gentler plan, and leave a review to help more people find the show.

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    22 Min.
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