If you’re a high-performing woman—especially a working mom—who’s doing all the things yet still goes to bed feeling behind, this episode is for you.

In today’s conversation, executive coach Mary Ashley Baker unpacks the mindset patterns that quietly keep high-capacity women overwhelmed, reactive, and exhausted… even when they’re achieving a lot.

You’ll learn why your worth defaults to performance, your time defaults to reactivity, and your energy defaults to coping—and how to shift the thoughts driving those patterns. Mary Ashley shares a simple mindset reframe and the first step of her Aligned Action Framework™, the identity-first operating system that helps high-achieving women lead with clarity, confidence, and peace.

If you’ve ever wondered:
• Why do I feel behind even when I’m productive?
• Why is my schedule so reactive?
• Why do I disappear into coping loops every night?
• Is it actually possible to feel aligned at work and at home?
You’ll find clarity—and relief—inside this episode.

What You’ll Learn:

• How mindset becomes the “engine” behind your habits, decisions, and capacity
• The difference between a fixed mindset and a growth mindset (and why it matters for working moms)
• Why high-performing women often fear failure more than anyone else
• How one repeated thought can fuel overwhelm or create alignment
• A small mindset shift you can start practicing today
• How your thoughts shape your rhythms, boundaries, and leadership
• Why you can’t build an aligned life on a fixed mindset

This episode gives you the first layer of the Aligned Action Framework™—Mary Ashley’s signature coaching methodology that helps women step out of survival mode and into a values-based, sustainable rhythm of living.

Join the Aligned Action Framework™ Waitlist:

https://maryashleybaker.myflodesk.com

This Episode Is Perfect For:

• High-performing women
• Working moms balancing work and family
• Leaders who feel reactive or overwhelmed
• Women stuck in burnout cycles or coping habits
• Anyone wanting to shift mindset, regain clarity, and feel more aligned

If you’re ending your days exhausted, scrolling, snacking, pouring a glass of wine, or organizing the pantry because it’s the only thing you can actually finish… this episode is going to feel uncomfortably familiar (in the best way).

In today’s episode, we unpack the third default that drains high-capacity women:
👉 Your energy defaults to coping.

Not because you’re lazy.
Not because you “lack discipline.”
But because you’re running a life without an intentional operating system.

Inside this conversation, you’ll learn:

• Why you can be “doing everything right” and still feel stuck in survival mode

You wake up behind, run on adrenaline all day, and collapse by evening. That’s not a character flaw—it’s a loop.

• The Coping Loop that high-performing women fall into

Perform for worth → React to everyone else’s priorities → Deplete → Cope → Repeat.

• Why strong, dependable women get hit hardest

Because you're good at pushing through. That strength becomes the trap.

• The hidden cost of coping behaviors

The wine, the scrolling, the “productive” busyness—they’re not the problem. They’re the symptoms.
And they’re costing you clarity, confidence, connection, and peace.

• How identity determines activity

When you forget who you are, you default to what feels good in the moment instead of what’s actually good for you.

• Why awareness—not hustle—is the first step out of the loop

You already have an operating system… the question is whether it’s one you designed or one you defaulted to.

• How faith reframes rest and work

Rest isn’t a reward for productivity—it’s part of God’s design for wholeness.

• What real restoration looks like in everyday life

Not a spa weekend. Small, soul-filling rhythms you practice on purpose.

By the end, you’ll understand why you can’t out-rest misalignment, why burnout isn’t caused by doing too much but doing the wrong things, and how a values-based operating system is the key to living rooted, present, and whole.

If you’re ready to get out of coping mode and into capacity, this episode gives you the awareness and language you’ve been missing.

Want to stop running on fumes?
Join the waitlist for The Aligned Action Framework™—my signature coaching program that helps high-capacity women reclaim their time, align their priorities, and build life-giving rhythms that actually work in real life.

Join the waitlist → maryashleybaker.myflodesk.com

🎙️ Episode 3 — The Real Reason You Always Feel Behind

You can make more money—but not more time.

So why does it always feel like you’re running a race with no finish line?

In this episode, executive coach Mary Ashley Baker digs into one of the biggest struggles high-performing women face: a reactive calendar that keeps them exhausted, overcommitted, and wondering if any of it really matters. Because time isn’t just a scheduling issue—it’s a stewardship issue.

If you’ve ever said “There just aren’t enough hours in the day,” this conversation will hit home.

You’ll learn:
✨ Why high-capacity women struggle to manage time—even when they’re organized
✨ The four sneaky ways we waste time without realizing it
✨ How reactive “yeses” steal from peace, presence, and purpose
✨ A simple mindset shift to move from time management to time stewardship

This isn’t a productivity pep talk. It’s a reminder that presence > performance and that your peace is worth protecting.

💡 Ready to stop reacting your way through the week and start leading your life on purpose?
That’s exactly what Mary Ashley teaches inside the Aligned Action Framework™—her 3-month coaching program for high-capacity women who want to reclaim their time, align priorities with capacity, and build life-giving rhythms that last.

👉 Join the waitlist here: https://maryashleybaker.myflodesk.com/

🎧 Align with Mary Ashley Baker is a podcast for high-capacity women—especially working moms—who want to win at work and love their lives. Through practical coaching, mindset shifts, and honest conversations, Mary Ashley helps you lead well, live well, and finally stop feeling behind.