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A Mother's Legacy: Transforming Tragedy into Hope for Future Generations (Part 1)

A Mother's Legacy: Transforming Tragedy into Hope for Future Generations (Part 1)

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 In this powerful episode of "Brave Hearts Speak," host Lucia Severtson interviews Kris Barney, a domestic violence survivor and advocate. Kris shares her harrowing journey through emotional abuse, stalking, and the tragic loss of her three-year-old daughter, Miranda, to domestic homicide. She discusses the systemic failures she faced, her work with the Domestic Abuse Resistance Team, and founding the Miranda Faith Memorial Foundation. Lucia guides listeners with compassion, emphasizing self-care and the importance of bearing witness to survivors' stories. The episode highlights resilience, the need for systemic change, and hope for those affected by domestic violence. Timestamps Kris's Background & Foundation (00:06:15) Kris introduces herself, her work with DART, and the Miranda Faith Memorial Foundation. Importance of Education for Survivors (00:08:00) Kris discusses empowering survivors through education and the challenges women face after leaving abuse. Awareness and Early Signs of Abuse (00:10:08) Kris and the interviewer discuss the importance of awareness and recognizing early signs of abuse. Wedding, Honeymoon, and First Abuse (00:14:28) Kris describes her dream wedding, honeymoon, and the first incident of verbal abuse. Pregnancy, Motherhood, and Escalating Abuse (00:17:56) Kris shares her pregnancy, hopes for family, and how abuse escalated during and after childbirth. Decision to Leave & Realization of Self-Worth (00:25:00) Kris describes the turning point at a firefighter event and her decision to end the marriage. Separation, Stalking, and Escalation (00:28:45) Kris recounts the escalation of stalking and harassment after refusing to reconcile. Stalking, Legal System Failures, and Threats (00:29:41) Kris details relentless stalking, legal obstacles, and threats to her and Miranda's safety. Police Dismissal and Female Officer Betrayal (00:41:23) Kris describes a traumatic experience seeking help from a female police detective. Temporary Relief and New Relationships (00:44:41) Kris finds brief peace when her ex focuses on a new partner and begins a new relationship herself. Ex-Husband's New Victim and Pattern of Abuse (00:47:12) Kris describes her ex's abuse of his new partner, Michelle, and the repeated cycle. Joint Custody and Ignored Warnings (00:51:35) Kris explains the court's decision to grant joint custody despite evidence of abuse and ignored warnings. Career Milestone and Final Days with Miranda (00:52:40) Kris describes a career achievement, leaving Miranda with her ex, and her unease. The Double Homicide (00:54:59) Kris details the events leading to and including the murder of Michelle and Miranda by her ex-husband. Learning of Miranda's Death (01:03:26) Kris describes the moment she learned of her daughter's death and her overwhelming grief. Episode Closing and Community Invitation (01:06:08) Lucia closes the episode, previews part two, and invites listeners to join the community and share their stories. Powerful Quotes from the Episode Kris,"I could not get them to understand that he was so dangerous because then he started threatening my life, my family, my dogs, and Miranda." Kris, "He had chipped away every piece of my heart and I had nothing left. I had just become so numb." Kris, "He told me, 'One day you could be walking to work or walking back to your car, and I could blow your head off and you would never even know it.'" Kris, "I literally felt like my soul had left my body. I couldn't even—I didn't know what to do." Kris, "I hated, hated, hated walking away from her that day." RESOURCES: Connect with Kris: Speaker • Survivor • Advocate • Community Educator Miranda Faith Memorial Fund Miranda Faith Memorial Fund Facebook Page INSTAGRAM: @hkbarney Email: kris.barney@dartla.org Kris Barney is the Community Advocate with the Domestic Abuse Resistance Team in Ruston, Louisiana. A survivor of domestic violence and stalking, Kris lost her 3-year-old daughter, Miranda, to domestic homicide. She now speaks nationally on resilience, survivor support, and improving community responses to abuse. Kris has trained at major conferences, including the Conference on Crimes Against Women and the National Center on Victims of Crime. Brave Hearts Speak Community on Patreon - Join our creative community on Patreon with monthly gatherings and everyday bravery practices. COACH WITH LUCIA: COACH WITH LUCIA TAKING STOCK OF YOUR RELATIONSHIPS (A Free Reflection Guide) - Get it Here! FOLLOW THE PODCAST: Brave Hearts Speak on Apple Podcasts and Spotify VISIT OUR WEBSITE: THE BRAVE WOMEN'S COMMUNITY CENTER CONNECT ON FACEBOOK CONNECT ON INSTAGRAM JOIN OUR MEETUP GROUP FOR LOCALS TO DENVER, COLORADO – JOIN HERE! 💼 Partner Offer: Headway Looking to simplify insurance-based therapy? Headway helps licensed therapists and psychiatrists manage credentialing, billing, and admin — so you can focus on your clients. ✨ Special Offer:Sign up ...
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