In this uplifting and candid episode, Angie and Shelly tackle why it feels so uncomfortable for women to say kind things about themselves — and why that needs to change. From brushing off compliments to self-deprecating humor, they explore how society has conditioned us to dim our own light. Together, they challenge listeners to shift the narrative, start speaking self-kindness out loud, and celebrate their wins, big or small.

🪞 The Compliment Deflection Habit – Why we instantly downplay compliments instead of just saying “thank you”

💬 The Power of Words – How self-talk becomes identity, and why it’s time to speak to yourself like someone you love

💪 Confidence vs. Arrogance – Understanding the difference and reclaiming pride in what you’ve earned

📸 Inside the Studio – How Angie gets her photography clients to say something kind about themselves

💔 Self-Deprecation Isn’t Humble – Why joking about your flaws can actually shut people off from complimenting you at all

🌷 Body Confidence and Language – Removing words like “flattering” from our vocabulary and embracing clothes that make us feel good

🔥 Force of Nature Energy – Why being called “strong-willed” or “too much” is actually a compliment in disguise

👩‍👧 Raising Confidence in the Next Generation – How to give kids non-physical compliments that shape self-worth early

💖 Daily Mantras and Self Validation – Creating affirmations that remind you who you are — a bright light that belongs here

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💬 What do you love about yourself? Say it with your chest — no apology, no asterisk. Tell us in the comments or message us privately — we want to hear you brag a little.