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117. Keep Your Word: The Four Agreements and Staying Committed When It's Hard

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 When your spouse says "just a minute" and returns thirty minutes later, does that count as a lie or just a miscommunication?

The Drapers tackle this exact scenario in their latest conversation about Don Miguel Ruiz's Four Agreements and how they apply to marriage. Being impeccable with your word isn't just about grand promises (it's also about those small daily commitments like callbacks and time estimates). They share how Brad's showerhead repair spiraled from "a minute" to much longer due to tangled Teflon tape, creating frustration not from the delay itself but from unmet expectations.

The real breakthrough? Recognizing that miscommunication stems from different perspectives rather than intentional deception. Michaela explains how she addressed the pattern constructively instead of staying irritated, while Brad learned that good intentions don't erase impact. Throughout, they emphasize that reception matters more than delivery in intimate relationships—both parties need validation, not just justifications.

From juggling podcast production with a newborn to navigating everyday conflicts, the Drapers demonstrate that doing difficult things strengthens relationships. They stress approaching disagreements as collaborative problem-solving opportunities rather than blame games, proving that perseverance and tactful communication matter even when circumstances feel overwhelming.

Tune in to hear how these ancient principles transform modern marriage dynamics.


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