This week I’m joined once again by my partner, rigger, and Dom — Slade — as we unpack our recent experience completing Kazami-Ryu Level 1, a three-day Shibari intensive right here in Townsville.

Together we share what it was really like to dive into formal rope training — the challenges, the breakthroughs, and the lessons learned from both sides of the rope.

We explore:

• Slade's lessons in persistence as an aspiring rigger
• Harley's insights on how mindset can have a major effect on pain tolerance
• The difference between playful rope and “lab-mode” learning
• How rope journaling can be a creative way to integrate learning
• When to upgrade your rope
• Navigating comparison and confidence in group learning
• The importance of having fun and being a supportive partner

This one feels like you’re sitting down with us for a casual chat about rope over a few drinks. Neither of us are experts — but sometimes that makes the experience even more relatable for those who are also new to this world.

From bleeding fingers and proud time-trials to unexpected moments of calm and connection, this episode is both an inside look at structured rope education and a love letter to the art of learning together.

Special thanks to Basanos and Angel for bringing their amazing skills and tuition to our little town!

xx Harley 🐰

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