Jake and Noel explore the theme of tenderness through poetry, personal anecdotes, and conversations about ordinariness and care, beginning with Raymond Carver's poem "Still looking out for number one". They discuss how tenderness is found in the economy of words and the beauty of the ordinary.

Podcast Editor - Ger Kellett

Show notes -

Looking out for number one, by Raymond Carver

FOOTWASHING, by Jake Esman

she had loved her father

like any daughter

valued his advice

his kindness, his company

yet she wouldn’t say

they were close

then, in his mid-eighties

his memory went

and with it

his personality — partly

he needed her care

and she gave it

willingly

they were intimate months

when nothing is private

and all physical needs

require assistance

and that’s just

how it goes

she was not the first

to experience that great sense of closeness

of tender mutuality

those days when she washed his feet

and clipped his toenails

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