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Unconditional Parenting

Moving from Rewards and Punishments to Love and Reason
Autor: Alfie Kohn
Sprecher: Alfie Kohn
Spieldauer: 8 Std. und 41 Min.
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One basic need all children have, educator Alfie Kohn argues, is to be loved unconditionally, to know that they will be accepted even if they screw up or fall short. Yet conventional approaches to parenting such as punishments (including "time outs"), rewards (including positive reinforcement), and other forms of control teach children that they are loved only when they please us or impress us. Kohn cites a body of powerful and largely unknown research detailing the damage caused by leading children to believe they must earn our approval. That's precisely the message children derive from common discipline techniques, even though it's not the message most parents intend to send.

More than just another book about discipline, Unconditional Parenting addresses the ways parents think about, feel about, and act with their children. It invites them to question their most basic assumptions about raising kids while offering a wealth of practical strategies for shifting from "doing to" to "working with" parenting - including how to replace praise with the unconditional support that children need to grow into healthy, caring, responsible people.

©2005 Alfie Kohn (P)2016 Tantor

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such a great title.. + it's making so much sense

I love that he reads h8s book himself, he's bringing in his passion for the subject.
I really like the examples he is giving when explaining things... and everything he is describing just makes so much sense.
everybody who is interested in a parenting style with unconditional love... not just saying it but warning the child to receive exactly this massage, should read this book!

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interesting and gives you a new way of thinking

well explained, well spoken. brings new way of thinking to parenting, explained with research. Information density is high, difficult to listen to it on the side.

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Unverzichtbar

Die ersten Kapitel erläutern ausgiebig, warum Belohnungen, Strafen und das Zurückhalten von Liebe und Fürsorge in der Kindererziehung unvorteilhaft und schädlich sind. Es werden Studien und Nachweise zitiert als Beleg dafür.
Alfie Kohn erzählt auf mitunter humorvolle Weise, was für eine gute Eltern-Kind Beziehung und eine umfassend positive Entwicklung wichtig ist, gibt konkrete Tipps zu Verhalten und Formulierung ohne eine generelle Patentlösung vorzugaukeln.
Gelesen ist das Buch sehr gut. Es werden Zitat Anfang und Ende mitgelesen, sodass man gut folgen kann (nicht etwa wie in Siblings without rivalry, bei dem man oft nicht weiß, wer gerade spricht). Kohns Stimme finde ich sehr angenehm, das Lesetempo optimal.
Ich habe das Buch oft weiter empfohlen. Es wird auch von Coaches im Bereich Gentle Parenting sehr gerne empfohlen.

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Must read!!!!!

Should be taught in school to everyone. Lifechanging and so vital! If you have kids: read this!

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Every parent should read this book.

In our society, the fear of "spoiling" a kid is widely spread. Consequences are supposed to be a very effectiv means to prevent getting a tyrant. Praising is important to motivate kids.
This is all so wrong and a lot of people don't know this...