From our connections with our friends, family, partners and co-workers to how we interact with the cashier at the grocery store, there’s something strange going on in our relationships today. If you’ve recently been left scratching your head and wondering what that “something” is, the right book has just found you.

While human beings weren’t looking, our lives and relationships took an evolutionary detour, leaving many of us feeling ditched in a harsh, frigid, new world, scrambling for a bit of warmth, and seeking answers to the most pressing questions of our time. Where is all the hostility and tension coming from? Is there something in the water that would explain the extreme behavior that’s unfolding? Why are our relationships more fragile than rice paper and disposed of as easily as molded bread these days? Is there a way to adapt to the changes in the relationship environment and still live a good life?

In the tradition of her other books, Getting Over it in Milwaukee, Stamina, and The Stepping Off Point, the author continues to sound the alarm of awareness, personal responsibility, and liberation in managing your relationships. They’re Not Coming takes the listener on an unexpected evolutionary journey and dares to ask and answer the questions you’ve only contemplated in the quiet, dark corners of your mind. Where you end up on this trip it’s up to you. Either way, strap yourself in and enjoy the ride.