You’ve been taught to fix what’s wrong with you… but what if the parts you’ve been trying to hide are the very parts God calls beautiful?

In this episode of Unhinged: Separating Faith from Fiction, we take a deeper look at identity, self-perception, and the subtle ways church culture can train us to dislike and distrust ourselves. We explore the powerful idea that what you’ve labeled as flaws or imperfections may not be flaws at all — and how learning to see yourself through God’s eyes can radically shift the way you see yourself.

If you’ve ever struggled with self-criticism, shame, or the feeling that something about you is deeply flawed and needs fixing — this one’s for you.

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN

If you’ve ever…

• felt like something about you was “too much” or “not enough”
• been taught to distrust your own thoughts, feelings, intuition, or heart
• struggled with self-criticism or feeling like you need to fix yourself

… then this will help you:

• reframe what you’ve been calling “flaws”
• understand how shame-based thinking gets reinforced in church culture
• begin to see yourself through a lens of grace instead of criticism
• rebuild self-trust and embrace your authentic self

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Stream “My Scars Are Beautiful” on Spotify.

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Purchase Martin’s book, Secrets of Spiritual Growth.

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CHAPTERS

00:00 Welcome to Unhinged: Separating Faith from Fiction!

03:05 How Do You Find the Right Environment?

05:13 Go Where You’re Celebrated, Not Where You’re Tolerated

07:21 What You Call Ugly, God Calls Beautiful

12:54 Guided Meditation: You Are His Treasure

18:07 “My Scars Are Beautiful” song by Michele