What if the life you’re living… isn’t actually the one you want?

In this episode of Girl, Why Not You?, Jennie sits down with divorce attorney, speaker, and author Renee Bower to unpack the pressure so many women feel to be the “good girl”—polite, agreeable, and always putting others first.

But here’s the truth: that conditioning is keeping you stuck.

Renee shares her own journey through two divorces and how she moved from shame and self-doubt to reclaiming her voice, her power, and her life. Together, we dive into what it really takes to break free from people-pleasing and start making decisions that actually align with who you are.

In this episode, we talk about:

• Why “good girl” conditioning is exhausting—and how to break it
• The power of hard conversations and setting real boundaries
• Letting go of fear, guilt, and the need for approval
• How to stop avoiding change and start taking action
• Renee’s simple framework: Stop. Drop. Roll.

This is your reminder that bravery isn’t something you’re born with—it’s something you build.

And the longer you avoid the hard conversations, the longer you stay stuck in a life that doesn’t feel right.

So if you’ve been feeling pulled toward something more… this is your sign to stop settling and start choosing yourself.

Because the question is—and always will be—girl… why not you?

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Connect with Renee at https://msreneebauer.com/