Alcohol consumption in the United States is declining. Gallup reports that only 54% of Americans now drink — the lowest level recorded in decades — and nearly half of Americans say they are actively trying to drink less.

On the surface, this sounds like clear progress.

But in this episode, Molly explores an important question raised by Dr. Adi Jaffe in a recent article: Are we truly becoming more emotionally resilient… or are we simply swapping one escape route for another?

As cannabis use rises alongside declining alcohol consumption, it’s worth examining whether substitution equals transformation — or whether real change requires something deeper.

This episode unpacks the cultural shift away from alcohol, the rise in cannabis use, and the critical distinction between behavioral change and emotional growth.

In This Episode, You’ll Learn:

• The latest statistics on declining alcohol consumption in the U.S.
• Why cannabis use is increasing as alcohol use declines
• What research says about cannabis use and alcohol reduction
• The difference between substitution and emotional resilience
• Why simply replacing alcohol doesn’t necessarily change your relationship with discomfort
• How psychological dependence operates beneath surface-level behavior change
• The core beliefs that often drive alcohol use
• A simple self-reflection exercise to assess your own coping patterns

Key Statistics Discussed

• 54% of Americans report drinking alcohol (Gallup 2025)
• Nearly half of Americans are trying to drink less
• 65% of Gen Z plans to cut down or abstain from alcohol
• Approximately 178,000 alcohol-related deaths occur annually in the U.S.
• 41% of young adults report cannabis use in the past year
• 29% report past-month cannabis use
• 10.8% report daily cannabis use
• About 3 in 10 cannabis users are at risk of Cannabis Use Disorder

The Core Question

Reducing alcohol is meaningful.

But emotional resilience is something deeper.

This episode challenges you to consider:

• If alcohol disappeared tomorrow, what would you reach for?
• Are you choosing relaxation — or needing escape?
• Have your behaviors changed… or have your beliefs changed?

True transformation happens when you dismantle the belief that you need something outside of yourself to manage your internal state.

Resources Mentioned

• Dr. Adi Jaffe
• The Abstinence Myth by Dr. Adi Jaffe
• Unhooked by Dr. Adi Jaffe
• Sunnyside mindful drinking app (15-day free trial available)
• Monitoring the Future (University of Michigan)
• CDC Cannabis Use Data
• Harvard Health on cannabis vs. alcohol risks
• Brown University study on cannabis and alcohol consumption

Low risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA:

Healthy men under 65:

No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week.

Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older:
No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week.

One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink.

Abstinence from alcohol
Abstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or another substance in the past.

Benefits of “low-risk” drinking
Following these guidelines reduces the risk of health problems such as cancer, liver disease, reduced immunity, ulcers, sleep problems, complications of existing conditions, and more. It also reduces the risk of depression, social problems, and difficulties at school or work.