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7 Shocking Reasons Why Men Know Exactly What Respect Looks Like and Choose Not to Give It to You

7 Shocking Reasons Why Men Know Exactly What Respect Looks Like and Choose Not to Give It to You

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 Have you ever been told "I don't know what you want" or "women are so confusing"? If so, this episode is going to challenge everything that statement was designed to make you believe about yourself.In our previous episodes, we explored the respect gap and how respect often becomes transactional in long-term relationships. Today we are looking at something that might finally help you trust what you have been observing for years. Because here is what the evidence actually shows: many men are not confused about what respect looks like at all. Watch how they treat other men and you will see exactly what they are capable of.What you can observe when men interact with each other:When another man speaks, many men listen without interrupting and give him space to finish his thoughtWhen another man achieves something, they celebrate him, ask questions, and show genuine interestWhen another man makes a mistake, they defend him, explain the difficult circumstances, and give him the benefit of the doubtWhen another man does something problematic, they minimize it, protect his reputation, and change the subjectThey show care, consideration, and protection for other men consistently and without being askedNow ask yourself honestly. Are you receiving that same treatment?In this episode you will discover:How men demonstrate respect with other men through observable patterns in listening, defending, and protectingWhat the confusion excuse actually means when someone says "I don't know what you want"Why research confirms women are interrupted more frequently than men, even by the same men who never interrupt each otherWhy this is about choice and not capacityWhat it means for you if you are not receiving the same respect you have watched him give freely to othersResearch published in the Journal of Language and Social Psychology confirms what many women have long suspected. Women are interrupted significantly more than men, and men are more likely to interrupt women than to interrupt other men. This is not individual bad behavior. It is a pattern. And if you have been watching it play out in your own relationship for years, you are not imagining it.When someone tells you they do not know what you want, consider what you have already observed. He listens carefully to his friends without being coached. He defends other men's mistakes without being asked. He shows care and consideration to other men without detailed instructions. He figures it out with them. So the confusion is not about not knowing how. It is about choosing where.What the "I don't know what you want" excuse really signals:I can do this. I just do not want to do it for youWhat you are asking for would cost me something I am unwilling to spendBlaming your communication is easier than acknowledging my choiceThe capacity exists. The willingness does notThis episode is gentle and observational. There are no accusations here, only an invitation to notice patterns you may have already been seeing and to trust yourself when you do. Because if you have spent years being told you are too sensitive, too demanding, or too complicated while watching this same person navigate complex social situations with other men effortlessly, you are seeing something real.You can stop trying to find the perfect way to ask. You can stop wondering if you are being too demanding. The issue was never your communication or your worth. It was always about where someone chose to direct a respect they were clearly capable of giving.Clarity does not solve everything, but it helps you trust yourself. And trusting yourself is where everything begins.Content Warning: This episode discusses patterns of differential treatment and emotional dynamics in relationships that may bring up strong feelings for survivors of narcissistic abuse.📚 **Books by Lynn** 👉 Go Here 🎓 **Online Course: Narcissistic Abuse Recovery** 👉 Start the Course🤍**Coaching with Lynn** 1:1 Connect with Lynn - Coaching🧘‍♀️ **Somatic Healing Audio Sessions** 👉 Listen Now Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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