"I failed" is an event. "I am a failure" is a lie.

In this transformative episode of Five Star Life, Coach Seth and Coach Mia tackle the "Toxic Rumination Loop"—the dangerous habit of replaying our mistakes until they become our identity. Using the "Railroad Track Theory," they explain why joy and adversity are parallel constants in our lives, and why your brain is biologically wired to "Battery Optimize" by keeping you stuck in survival mode.

Coach Seth shares his personal journey of overcoming his own "adversity" with running, illustrating how to teach your brain what thriving actually looks like. They dive deep into the science of Learned Helplessness and provide a practical "Success Sequence" to help you reclaim your power. You'll learn why we must Normalize Failure (not accept it) and how "Micro-Wins" can rebuild the confidence shattered by a hard season.

Whether you’re a parent trying to help your child navigate a setback or an adult feeling like you’re stuck in an emotional "middle school," this episode is your blueprint to ensure a bad season doesn't turn into a bad life.

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