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Finding community is something we discuss often on Dem Bois Podcast. Why? Because it is important! And in this episode, we emphasize the significance of community, confidence, and visibility, as well as the challenges and triumphs faced during transition. We also discuss fitness, exploring the harmful stereotypes and gatekeeping present in gyms and sharing our personal journeys of self-acceptance and expression.

We talk:

03:52 - Exploring identity and gender journey

13:00 - Family support and relationships

25:47 - Navigating visibility and transition

34:02 - Challenging fitness norms and gatekeeping

46:55 - The importance of visibility in healthcare

55:18 - Fluidity in gender identity and self-expression

Episode References:

Coming to America

Single All the Way

Ep. 96 Episode of Empowerment with Alexander Rey Simon-Perez

The Sultan Room

The Bush

Cubbyhole Bar NYC

Henrietta Hudson

Read more about Miles in their bio below:

I’m a transmasc creative working across nightlife, modeling, and wrestling. Known for my confident energy, I’ve hit stages with Butch Hooters, Dykes & Dolls, The Bush, Gingers, Mascarade, and Masc House, walked TGS NYFW with Dapper Q, been featured in BINADW, and thrown down in Lesbian Oil Wrestling and Tboy Wrestling. I’ve also co-produced shoots recently! I love blending seduction, strength, and storytelling, exploring masculinity through many lenses. I’m driven by a vision where trans men and transmascs are celebrated and adored — never treated as an afterthought.

• Instagram: @amillymiles
• Tiktok: @amillymiles
• Twitter: @amillymiles

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