You've spent years believing you were the difficult one, the problem family member, the one who was too sensitive or dramatic. But what if everything you blamed yourself for was actually a calculated psychological mechanism designed to hide someone else's dysfunction?

In this episode, we're pulling back the curtain on family scapegoating—one of the most painful and confusing dynamics in narcissistic relationships. You'll discover why you were chosen for this role, what purpose it served for those around you, and most importantly, how to stop carrying blame that was never yours to carry.

This isn't about making excuses for your behavior. It's about understanding the system that was designed to keep you small, quiet, and responsible for everyone else's emotions.

• Why the person who scapegoated you chose you specifically—and what it says about your character, not your flaws

• The surprising reason scapegoating targets the most conscientious people in the family system

• How being blamed for things outside your control became a prison of false responsibility

• The question that will finally help you see where the real problems actually originated

If you've ever wondered why you can't seem to do anything right, why you're always the one everyone blames, or why you've spent decades trying to fix yourself when maybe it was never you that needed fixing—this episode will change how you understand your past and your role in it.

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