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Sometimes, there’s a wild dragon in our mind.

It makes our head turn small problems into something that feels threatening.

Creating a big disaster and making our thoughts catastrophizing.

The dragon can awaken at any time.

When we get triggered — by our partner, our boss, or even by ourselves — our calm state gets hijacked.

And suddenly, it feels like a fire-breathing dragon takes over our thoughts.

It twists how we see things.

It exaggerates danger.

And if we’re not careful, we don’t just have the dragon in our mind — we become it.

We say things we don’t mean.

We assume the worst.

We hurt other people — and ourselves — often without even realizing it.



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00:00 The Inner Dragon

04:25 Why The Dragon Exists

07:50 How To Tame The Dragon

10:46 Final Thoughts


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