In this episode, I’m answering a question that came straight from the community:

“How do I stop measuring my worth by my progress compared to other people?”

If you’ve ever looked around and felt like everyone else is moving forward, careers, relationships, money, milestones, while you feel stuck or behind, this conversation is for you.

We talk honestly about why comparison feels unavoidable, why pretending it doesn’t exist doesn’t actually help, and how to stay rooted in your worth without tying it to speed, timelines, or what other people are doing.

In this episode, I share:

• Why noticing other people’s progress doesn’t mean you’re failing
• The difference between progress and worth
• Practical ways to stop using other people’s timelines as a measuring stick
• How to manage social media and information overload without guilt
• What it really means to stay grounded in who God says you are, even when life feels slow

This isn’t about rushing your journey or forcing positivity.

It’s about learning how to grow without competing, and remembering that your worth was settled long before the milestones arrived.

Let’s stay connected:

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Email: ayantemeetope@gmail.com

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